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Does he want her or me?


Question Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 10:51 pm

Okay, my boyfriend and I had went to wal-mart recently and he saw his ex girlfriend there. She's 14 and I am 17. My boyfriend is 16 (and they dated for about 9 months and broke up cause she cheated on him twice). Anyhow, he didn't speak to her in the store, he just waved. Now I've been nice to where he can still be friends with her like on the phone, but she took things into her own hands. She called him this morning and told him that she loves him and misses him, and that if we don't work out, that she'll still be there waiting for him....anyhow he says to her, "Do you think I am gonna break-up with for you?" And she got quiet... then she says to him "Well would you go back out with me if that happened?" And he says " I don't know..." ( and as my boyfriend is telling me this I'm thinkin to myself...what do you mean?) So then as we were going to our separate high schools, I gave him a kiss and I told him I loved him... and the he goes "I love Rowbyn (that's the ex's name)" And I knew he was doing that to make me mad... but as I was walking him to his school, I remember him saying "I'm gonna feel funny the rest of the day". So I am wondering if yall think he may leave me for her, or does he still have feelings for her. Any advice I am sure would help! THANKS FOR READING!

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OrangeMochaJava answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 3:51 pm:
I think he may be interseted in his ex. You should sit him down seriously and just ask him straight out. If he is interested in her, then you have to let it go. You'll be upset and it's probably going to hurt really bad. I know. Even though you love him, and he says he loves you, he shouldn't be interested in other girls. If he's not then you should tell him that it's real upsetting to you and ask him to talk to her. Trust your gut. Don't trust your heart cuz they can break, your gut is a gift from God...and he'll help you throught it. Even if you don't believe or how bad it may hurt. I hope it works out for you.

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whabit answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 5:20 am:
Tell him how you would feel if he left you for her, Tell him you really love him and don't want to loose him... Then just ask how he feels about you and then ask him how he feels about Robyn... I think his reaction to those questions would give you the awnser...

Hope I helped, I hope he doesn't leave you and that everything works out for the best!

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soccerplayer6 answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 11:48 pm:
She is 14?! She is WAY too young for love. and You are his right now so fight the fight! And he is being stupid for even going back out with the premature whore. :D

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karenR answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 11:44 pm:
Oh, I think he was only teasing you.

You need to talk to him about it but I really doubt he would have said anything if he were considering going back to her. You would have been the last to know about it.

Tell him it worried you and discuss it. However I wouldn't worry about it to much. :)

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