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i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do?
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hmm... that usually happens with fwb... tell him how you feel.
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Well, friends with benefits always end up with someone liking another person. Tell him how you feel or just ask him out yourself!
Always there..
Donna
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I can just give you the advice I gave my kids.If you don't love the person enough to marry them do not have sex with them.You could get pregnant, you could get a life altering std blah, blah, blah. does your life me so little to you to risk all that? ok my "mom" feelings are now taken care of.
I think you should talk to this guy and see what his feeling for you are.Maybe they have changed for you too.If not then you need to quit messing around.The right guy for you may just pass you by because your messing with someone else.
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i neever had friends with benifits but im sure its tough. in your situation i see where your comming from. youve been with this boy with fwb and im sure now your getting more feelings. my best advice for you is tell him fwb isnt working for you anymore, tell him that your starting to feel for him. im sure he'll understand. One, he might be having those same feelings as you, and then it will turn out for the better. two, he might get mad but you dont need someone like that in your life. just a silly little boy looking for someone to give him his needs. you kno what i mean? so just tell him how you feel and explain it isnt working out with the fwb. good luck and i hope i helped! <3
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You should tell him that you have feelings for him and that if he doesn'r have feelings for you then that's ok. If you just cant stand being his friend bcuz you can't take it anymore. Then just stop being his friend if you have feelings for him and he can't accept that.
Hope i helped
Softballchick92
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Get a better guy who doesnt just want to have sex or other shit with you! its better for you! you wont get hurt in a real (well i cant say you wont..) but if you get attached to him.. then if he leaves you will just be hurt knowing that he doesnt like you the same way!! Just say you either want a real relationship or no more *friends with benifits* its just hurting you!!
hope i helped a little
*Marielle*
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You should deffinatly tell him. If you've been friends with benefits for almost a year and he has kept with 'it' i guess u can say umm that must mean he has some sort of feelings for you! Hope i helped. xo- ashley
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you should tell your friend that you have feelings for him im sure hell understand and you should probably stop doing the friends with benefits thing because it would attract you even more to him and then if you told him you liked him adn he rejected you you would get more hurt
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first off i personally feel that fwb is so wrong. if your going to do stuff with someone i mean even kissing you should feel some kind of emotion for them. i personally dont agree with that ONE BIT! but, if you feel this way tell him/her that your begining to feel some feelings for them. talk about it with them - and then make a decision
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