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what does sex feel like?
I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way?
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Haha. Don't listen to the movies. (I'm a virgin. But ALL my friends are not.) Everyone I have ever spoke to told me that it hurt like hell the first time..but if you are really like. In love with the person you do it with. Its good pain.. I don't know. That is one of the reaons why I don't want to do it.. XD I tend to stay away from the stuff that hurts me. <.<
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it hurts im pretty sure because if y0u are still a virgin then y0u are pretty tight d0wn there..and it hurts..
♥aMbi
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sex isn't that bad. no matter what everyone says, sex doenst hurt that bad the first time. especially if your doing it with some one you care about, and if it's what you both want.
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Its painful...because you've just given pretty much your whole life to somebody who you don't even love! Wait till your married.
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For your first time, I would advise that you take it as slowly as time allows. The more prepared you are physically, emotionally, and mentally, the less it'll hurt and the better your first time experience will be.
Use plenty of foreplay, and I mean plenty. It may or may not hurt, depending on how ready your body is. When you are fully aroused, your body will actually widen the tiniest bit, but every inch counts.
Don't forget to use a condoms and lube. And if at anytime during your experience you want to stop, it is fully within your right to say no.
Good luck.
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yes hah but in a good way
write back xoxo
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It souly depends on how relaxed you are. My first time didnt hurt one bit, i loved it! - but i guess that was because i did it with my boyfriend who i really truely love - If i did it with just anybody i doubt i would have enjoyed it. I really wouldnt rush it thoe, if you dont feel comfable with the person you wanna do it with then i doubt yuo'll enjoy i. Luv nicki xxx
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It depends. If you're already loose, it might not hurt that much, it also depends on the width of the guy you're with. Personally, I was pretty tight, and my boyfriend is pretty well.. huge. My first time hurt, BAD. I'm not going to sit here and lie to you. I'd go into details, but I'm not sure if you want me to. I was on bottom my first time, but it works better if you're on top the first time. I know, I know, I thought it was gross/weired to be on top, but it was way easier for me. And use lubrication, we didn't, but I wish we did. Anyways, back to your question. It does hurt, but after a little while, the pain should start to ease up, just don't tighten your muscles down there. But no matter what, it is pretty painful, or so I've heared. The bad thing about bottom, it hurts, from behind, that's the worst, I've never had it done, but I've heared it hurts the worst. And then there's the top, it will still hurt, but not as bad, the only bad thing is it seems like you can feel the pressure inside your stomach. I don't know, I'm just rambling now, sorry! Hope I helped, write me back if you have anymore questions, I love to help! Hope I helped, good luck! x3
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Hey there! Well, your fear is confirmed ... it does hurt, but only the first time. The first ime having sex .... well, mentally, your scared to death and nervous, and physically, when he enters you, just the tip of the penis will sting a lot. It will sting like .... getting cut there with a razor a bunch of times. lol. And when he pushes it the rest of the way in, it hurts a lot. It brought tears to my eyes ... BUT DONT STOP IT, because you'll just have to put up with it next time. As your first time sex progresses, the pain lessens a bit, because your body isnt so shcoked with a foreign body part in you. It's painful, not disgusting, lol.
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It depends on the person. For some people it hurts liked hell, for others its good. When your ready, try it. Besta Luck
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its a great way to exspress ur feelings and it sort of hearts but its great craxy and good. i hoped i heled
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you are apparently a young one..to be talkin like your a loser.. but it hurts the first time and it isnt suppose to be wild and crazy idiot..its suppose to mean something to you and the person you have sex with..much luv dez
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The First Time is usually Painful.but once you get use to it the pain just goes away. its kind of like a migran like it hurts real bad but it stops .. Its also wild and Crazy in a good way!
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God Bless yOu.
x0 Jadelyn
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all of the above
Dr.Phil
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you arnt ready then, if you are asking a question about it, then you arnt ready to have sexual intercorse.
Just wait, you have a long life a head of you, you dont want to get AIDS or any form of STD's just wait until you are married to a guy that you trust and that you both have been tested :)
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I honestly have no clue, but listen: you say that you're ready, but are you? I know you don't want a rant out of this question, but please just take a moment to read this. You <i>aren't</i> ready physically or emotionally. Are you able to take care of a child at this point in your life? Birth control (any form) is NOT 100% effective. You could use all forms of birth control combined and still become pregnant. You need to be an adult and able to make your own decisions without having to worry about your parents' opinions (unless, of course, your parents just don't care) and you need to be in a stable relationship with someone you love/married. At your age, you are not emotionally ready. Please wait until you're older and with someone that you love because it'll be worth the wait.
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I've heard, (now just because I may not be experianced, it doesn't mean I know nothing.) that it hurts the first few times. Now, if you're a teen, 14, 15, 16, I hope you gave this time to think over, because lots think they are ready, and end up getting scared when the time comes, I'm not saying you aren't ready, I just hope that you really are and you've had protection discussions with your partner, I guess I could say.
-TheTeenGirl
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Uhhhh i have never had it but i do kno that it hurts for like a little while then after awhile it doesnt hurt and its feels good hope this helps
Nora and Leanne*
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it does hurt, not that i would know i just have heard that before. and i also heard that it feels good after a while. o and wild and crazy is good, i could just imagin it, lol. hope i helped
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Sex is probably the most amazing experience any girl or guy can go through, if you do it with a person that you love and if they love you back. For alot of girls, it is painful the first time you have sex because, if you're tight "down there" then having a penis shoved there is going to hurt. The only way I can describe the pain, is that it's one of the best feeling pains you'll ever experience. Trust me, sex is an amazing experience if done with the right person. It can be addicting at times, but ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS use a condom!!! Friends of mine have had prengnacy scares because they were stupid and didn't use a condom, lucky for them, they aren't pregnant. It's hard to explain really how sex is, but I guarentee that most people will say that it feels very, very good. You just have to experience it for yourself! But please, before you go and have sex, make sure it's with someone you love and someone that loves you back!! Sex gets people emotionally attached and if the couple breaks up, it's hard. Good luck! Hope this helped.
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its painful. but if its with a guy you love that is gentle it isn't as bad. but yeeah it aint that great.
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