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First date mishap, how do I fix?
I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this?
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You said yourself he's shy, it could be that he's sick, or that he's shy. But you know, a hug and a hand hold on the first date isn't bad, so give him time, he'll come around. :)
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perhaps he's to embarrased or mayb he doesn't know how too
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If he's shy, then he didn't wanna kiss you probably because he just feels uncomfortable on a first date. I do too.He sounds ok. Go out with him next weekend and (I can't believe I'm using this word) cuddle with him. He'll get hornier then.
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I think he said it because he may have been embarrassed. Not all girls want to kiss on the first date. He probably thought he was doing the proper thing! Or he may have told you the truth about not wanting to make you sick. Holding hand's spreads more germs than kissing by the way,:) He probably dosen't know that though! I think your next date will end diffrently. Don't worry about it.:)
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If he got up the courage to hold your hand, and as you said he is shy, it might have been too much for him to kiss you too. Maybe hes not a very expierenced kisser and he was embarrassed, or he might have been sick. If I were you, I'd just take a step back, go out with him again, and maybe on the third date try to kiss him again. He might be ready.
Hope I helped!
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I htink that he may be telling the truth about being sick....did he seem sick like caughing?? if not it was probabily just a cover up because since hes shy, he wont move to kissing to fast. or maybe he just believes kissing on the first date is moving to fast, and he was just taking his beliefs to action. I dont really htink you have anything to worry about. Tou guys like each other, and you didnt know. Maybe the next time you get into a good convo, somewhere in the middle just say something like...."hey, sorry i was moving laittle to fast on our date, i wasnt sure i you were ready for it, or even if I was.." I dunno thats just a thought. Hope i helped!
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He probably smacked himself right after you went inside. People dont think..or have time to think..so i think he was just nervous and shy..but hes probably mad at himself for turning away. Go out with him again and if all is running smooth..no need to bring it up..but if you feel some awkwardness..maybe say "im sorry for the other night..i didnt mean to make you feel uncomfortable..i had a really great night and hopefully tonight will be great also"
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he might have felt - embarrassed, shy (as u said), because he's sick (makes the most sence), and it might be that hes not a very good kisser. its very possible. hope i helped ya
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