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Jelous
My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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Don't worry i know how you feel! My best friend is starting to hangout with my friend who used to be my best friend but we aren't as close anymore because of high school but we are still friends, anyway they have been hanging out a lot together and i feel really jealous because she is my friend not hers and im not saying they cant be friends but i know that if i was to hang out with my best friends friends without her she would get mad and jealous.
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It's obviously natural to feel jealous like that, everyone's been through a similar situation! Maybe your bestfriend feels the same way when you have conversations with them ! Maybe talk to them and tell them how you feel because you can't keep feelings like that inside you forever :)
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It's really normal to feel this way. Just today, I felt myself getting frustrated because a close friend of mine calls another person his best friend. And even though it's in a joking matter I still think that this other person, this outsider, doesn't deserve this position. Don't everwork yourself by feeling jealous of these other people. You know you and your friends are close because of all the time you guys spend with each other and how deep your relationships are. Your emotion only means that you value your best friends and their well-being. And even though it is intimidating, remember that you are the one that has the greatest bond with these people and you'll see that when only guys are all together.
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Tell her how you feel. If she's one of your best friends, she should understand. And if she doesn't, give her examples of how you feel left out and ask her how she would feel if she were in your position!
hope it works Steph
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They may feel the same when they see you with others too. It is just a natural reaction though.
You just have to ignore the feeeling as best you can.:)
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This happens to a lot of girls! Here's something you could do:
Tell her how you feel. If she's one of your best friends, she should understand. And if she doesn't, give her examples of how you feel left out and ask her how she would feel if she were in your position!
I hope it all works out!
-*Marissa*-
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I feel the SAME WAY. My best friend Bridget has started hanging out with like these goth people and I get so jealous. I emailed my friend and told her about her other best friends, and she hasen't emailed me back, so please do not piss ur friend off. Just ask youur friend nicely about it and talk to her and the other group of friends. This is what you need to realize
1. Get over being jealous, even if it takes years :-)
2. Make new friends and hang out with them, that way, your friend will feel jealous of you, and then you will not have to hang out with all your best friends fagget best friends. (im not calling you ia fagget i am calling your best friend's friends faggets)
hope i helped,
Dolphinluver510
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You need to realize that your friends are gonna have people they associate with that you don't necessarily associate with. That's fine. But don't get all worked up about it because your friends like spending time with and talking to you, too. There's really nothing to be jealous about. But you can always talk to your friends about it.
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Well, I only have 4 ideas.
1. Tell them about your jealousy, if they really are good friends they would understand and include you more.
2. Deal with it, though I'm sure you don't want to and that's why you are asking this question.
3. Make new friends so that when they are hanging out with other friends, you can hang out with other freinds.
4. Stop being jealous, though I am sure you can't since usually you can control your feelings.
I really do hope I helped.
~passionate
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I kow i feel like this ALL THE TIME and its HORRIBLE!!! I Know! But you just have to deal with it. If you know your best friend is gonna go out wiht her other friend without you, try calling around and going out with some other friends of your own! You will feel better getting out, and you will forget tou bff didnt invite you to her little get togethering. Thats how i deal...most of the times. Or you can be the planner, and invite you bff and her friends...and get to know all of them, and then you gys will be better friends, and then maybe you will be invited more, and you guys can all hang out Now thaty i think about it....i did that, got 2 seperate groups of friends together to make 1.....Its a good thing to do. Hope i helped! Good Luck!
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I know how you feel =/ it stinks! Maybe you can try hanging out with your best friends, friends... like all go in a chat room online together... or you could make new friends so that way when your other friends all ready of plans with their friends... you can hang out with your new ones... hope i helped
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Its normal to feel a little jealous..everyne feels that way. What i would do is become close friends with someone in your group..this way you guys wil have private convos and hang out. Im sure you have private convos with a friend sometimes..and you hang out with someone and the other people your friends with arent there right? because not everyone can get together all the time and hang out altogether. So try and keep that in mind..
-meliss-
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