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What do you do when people tell you that you've changed, because i've been involved in alot and i've lost two of my really close friends because of that. What should I do? I don't even think I changed. I'm just being myself =]
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The fact of the matter is, we all change. That's what makes life, life. It's a series of events and happenings, endings and beginnnings. Don't feel ashamed if you've grown into a newer, better person. Unfortunately, you can't bring people along for the ride, whether they're your closest friends or not. During my freshman year of high school, I went through one of the worst break ups of my life with the one whom I considered my best friend because our differences got in the way, and those differences turned into conflicts. Because of that, I had to face a lot of things by myself, and because of that, I learned a lot about myself. But I don't feel bad that we're not friends anymore. It was the simple fact that I had to be me and she had to be her. And you shouldn't regret anything either. I regretted losing my best friend and almost tried to be her friend again, but it just won't work because those differences will always be apart of that relationship. Now I find myself with some of the greatest friends I've ever had. So don't stop being who you are because people say you're not, even if that means standing alone.
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My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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It's really normal to feel this way. Just today, I felt myself getting frustrated because a close friend of mine calls another person his best friend. And even though it's in a joking matter I still think that this other person, this outsider, doesn't deserve this position. Don't everwork yourself by feeling jealous of these other people. You know you and your friends are close because of all the time you guys spend with each other and how deep your relationships are. Your emotion only means that you value your best friends and their well-being. And even though it is intimidating, remember that you are the one that has the greatest bond with these people and you'll see that when only guys are all together.
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