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Member Since: February 3, 2014
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Last Update: February 13, 2014
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I am a 25 year old female and for somr reason people seem to think me abd my cousin are dating some people even think wr are married and I dont know why. Its not like we flirt or anything or act like we are . We just hang out all the time because even though we are cousins him and I are likr best friends we are super close. I will give you sn example . The other day we went todairy queen to go eat and we told the lafy who was taking our order we were paying seperate and the lady gave us a funny look and kept asking my cousin if he sure he wasn't paying for mine and he said yes and then gave him a dirty look. Why do people think we are in a relationship together? (link)
If it upsets you just try to egnore it! You can hang out with who you want even ones who people think you are together with but just tell them that you are only friends and don't love eachother! I'm not really sure why they think you love eachother they might not even know you are cousins and in their eyes maybe they think you look like a good match so that's probably why they think you love eachother but it's just what people think, it won't change anything about you and your cousins friendship though :)


Me and my best friend have been very close and we used to have dance classes together but she quit and I don't have any classes togeather and we are kind of growing apart weather we want to or not how do I stay close with her (link)
This sort of thing happens with everyone especially girls for some reason ! I know it can upset you but just try and show her how much you mean to her! Like make her laugh, spend as much time together as you can , make her a preasant or do something sweat that will sure put a smile on her face ! And if you can text her try to tell her how you feel and if you can text her that's good because you can still have chats and be bffs even when your not with eachother :) just bacicly try your best to keep your friendship together


So my best friend (Let's just call her Lucy) and I have been close for nearly 5 months. It may not seem that long, but she means a lot to me. Well she recently moved to a different school a few weeks ago and came in contact with one of her old best friends (Let's call her Gina). Ever since she moved, Lucy has been telling other people and making statuses on Facebook and stuff like that saying Gina is her best friend and that she would die for her.

Well..... A few days ago, we got in a fight (Just a stupid tiny friend argument) and she started calling me names and stuff. Well she texted me recently and we had a good conversation and stuff, but I just don't want to lose her. Any advice please? (link)
I know how you feel, I've been through the same but it's just life maybe try to talk to her, tell her how you feel because you can't keep bad feelings inside you forever !!! But if your feelings get really really bad this May sound a bit crazy but try to move schools to where your best friend is . I know that sounds crazy but sometimes feelings can get worse!!! But try not to think about it try and find another new best friend in the school that your in ! If she was mean to you try and find a better friend and maybe talk to them about it!!!

I hope my advice helped :)


My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?

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It's obviously natural to feel jealous like that, everyone's been through a similar situation! Maybe your bestfriend feels the same way when you have conversations with them ! Maybe talk to them and tell them how you feel because you can't keep feelings like that inside you forever :)




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