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Hey there! I'm asking for my friend here for some advice. Her ex and her broke up last Tuesday and she still can't get over him. Then today, my best guy friend (who had a crush on her) asked her out and she said yes. She doesn't know what to do now. She still can't get over the other guy but has a new boyfriend? What can she do? (She likes my best friend though but can't get over her ex)
Tell her that this is normal. She needs to have time to heal before jumping into a new relationship. Dating guys is what she should be doing now. Eventually she will get over her ex because she will develop feelings for her new boyfriend. But it's honestly just going to be really hard to forget about her ex the first couple months because she was probably really close to him and she might still have lots of feelings for him. She needs to stay busy because then she won't think about him that much. But if she wants to continue this new relationship, she shouldn't give herself to this new guy and make it go really fast. She should take everything easy. If she wants she can tell the new guy that she and her ex just broke up. Probably talk to your best guy friend and let him know whats up. Be there for her like a sister because she will need you more than ever right now.
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What will i do if he does not answer my call anymore
Don't act desperate and don't keep calling him. Back off, and go find something else to do. You don't want to chase him. If you are really worried stop by his house and ask him what's up. This guy is either scared to tell you he's not interested in you anymore, or he is just simply busy. Be patient and when he does contact you again the best thing to do is to remain aloof and not care. He will find you more attractive because you have a life and doesn't revolve all around him. I think if he really likes/loves you he will apologize for not calling you and feel bad. If he doesn't then just forget the guy. Because he should care about you and not be a rude jerk. I hope that he does talk to you again. It's rude to just disappear, and I know how much that hurts. So try to be strong!
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There's this guy from work I really like.. He use to flirt with me all the time.. Back then I didn't know who he was. I learn his name the same day another guy from work asks me out.. That was about a month ago. I have been dating the other guy ever since. I have no feelings for the other guy. The first guy, however, I can not stop thinking about. I don't know why he has such an impression on me. I say hey to him at work sometimes nowadays and he seems to be a little hostile in response. I can't understand him. Maybe he liked me and found out about me and the other guy? It's been awkward between us. I could be all wrong about this and he could have been just messing with me when he was being all flirty. Or maybe he liked me and stopped liking me. I don't know but he is driving me crazy. I can't help being into him. What do you think? He is very good looking. I think much better than me; he could probably easily get a girl much more attractive than I. Maybe that's insecurity talking.
The best thing to do is to just wait and see what happens. The work place is professional and it's not supposed to be a place for flirting and dating. Don't talk about him to your co-workers or boss. He's either into you or seeing someone else. Whatever it is you can't make the first move. Let him come to you. If he sees that you are not into him anymore, then he will come and talk to you and get the ball rolling. Sometimes by not doing anything to a guy you are interested in just makes him take action, because a guy knows what he wants. You will know if he is into if he asks you out on a date. If he doesn't, then move on he isn't worth the time. Besides, he's just a guy from work.
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