Member Since: February 6, 2014
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Last Update: February 6, 2014
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What will i do if he does not answer my call anymore (link)
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Reality check, he's probably not busy, even busy guys take phone calls if they are interested, or they at least call you back. He's probably just not interested or has someone else, and doesn't know how to tell you, or doesn't want to deal with it, and that's okay, because he's probably not the one anyway (especially if he's being rude and ignoring you) Best thing to do is back off, go out with friends, meet new people and get on with your life, every day you worry about Mr. Wrong not taking your calls, you could be missing out on meeting Mr. Right...he's out there somewhere.
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I can't play any school sports until I'm thirteen,I can't get an email account until I'm thirteen,I can barely to anything on this website until I'm thirteen,a majority of the clubs I want to do I'm too young for, it seems like everything I'm too young for! I don't get why. I know how to be safe online, I'm very smart and athletic and talented so I doubt see why there is SO many clubs and after school activities I want to do, and I have great advice to give, but I have to wait for 3 years. I think this is stupid! I know that crazy people are online, but I understand not to fully trust them, and not to meet them in real life. Some say that 10 year olds are too immature. Not always true! Some kids are very intelligent, mature and adult like. She adults can be very dumb immature and childish. So why can't I participate in do many things. Someone asked me a question I can give a perfect answer to, but I have to wait soooooooooooo long. I'm sick of adults thinking that we are all young idiots. I'm tired of being held back because of my age. I'm tired of people saying “you're too young" I want to be treated like I'm old. A teenager. Not a 2 year old. (link)
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Yep, and you can't drive until you're 16, and you can't vote until you're 18, and you can't go to night clubs until you're 18, and you can't drink until you're 21.
I know it doesn't seem fair, but that's how it is, life isn't fair sometimes. Adults don't think kids are all young idiots, we've just lived longer, seen more, and are more aware of all the dangers out there, your parents are just doing their job, keeping you safe, teaching you to make good choices, be patient, wait until you're old enough and enjoy being a kid. Being grown up isn't nearly as much fun as you think it is.
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I want to straighten my hair with a blow dryer but I don't want to ruin my curl pattern. Will my curls come back if I blow dry it with cold air?
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Blow drying with cold hair does not damage your hair, heat damages hair.
If your curls are natural they'll come back.
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I'm 12 and have hemroids I'm to embarrassed to tell my mom what should I do (link)
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I had them with I was 13, and DIDN'T tell my mom, and they got worse and bled at school...
so, yeah...embarrassing, plus I thought I had cancer or something, and I worried myself sick about it.
Suck it up, tell your mom, she'll get you what you need to take care of them, and maybe change your diet for a day or 2 so you don't have to strain when you go to the bathroom, (that can make them worse, or cause you to get another one)
Moms have been through it all before themselves, when she was pregnant with you she likely had lots of hemorrhoids. I know it sucks, but you've got to tell her.
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I am recently 15, and I have felt emotionless on and off for 4 years. The longest I have not felt emotions was about a year and a half. Sometimes its short periods. Its not that I just think that I don't feel emotion, it's that I actually don't. I have felt emotion before, but it's almost as if its stopped. I want to feel something, I feel as if I'm a walking statue. Can someone help me find some answers on why this may be happening? (link)
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Indifference is common at 15, it is general apathy or the absence of emotion, but it is not usually a permanent state. It may sound like BS to you, but hormones play a HUGE factor in brain health, and what you are going through at 15 isn't abnormal. As a human, you have emotions, you were worried enough to ask for advice in this forum, and worry is simply another form of fear (an emotion.) Also, stop labeling yourself as emotionless, depressed, or use negative words to describe yourself, the way you speak and feel about yourself reflects onto others but more importantly reflects on you and your self esteem. After you are finished with puberty (18 for girls on average) (19 for guys) Get some professional help if it doesn't get better. There are lots of options out there for you, take care.
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I've been getting the cold, and strep throat a lot. I want to go outside and pay in the snow, but it's either too cold or I've got the cold. I want to know how to prevent the cold. Any ideas??????????? (link)
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Are you sure it's strep? The only way to know for sure is for your doc to do a culture. Strep isn't a virus, it's a bacteria, and the only way to get rid of bacteria is through antibiotics. Viruses can cause really bad sore throats too, so you need to know what you are dealing with. If you get colds a lot try to get more vitamin C and Zinc into your system, wash your hands thoroughly and often, also you may want to try a probiotic, it's supposed to support your immune system, make sure to get enough sleep, and eat right. Hope you feel better soon.
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I am the ninth grade and i just switched schools. There is this girl in my new school i really like. I have wet dreams about her and sometimes i masturbate about her too. I cannot keep a straight face when i speak to her and she also cannot keep a straight face when speaking to me too. We have caught ourselves stealing glances at each other. I think i like her and i would like to know whether she likes me too and if how best i can tell her i like her. Please help me. (link)
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It sounds like she might be attracted to you too. Just talk to her, get to know her, find out what she likes, if you have a class together, you can use that as an excuse...Ask her for homework. Just don't ask her a hundred questions at once, and don't tell her you like her (because you don't even know her yet.) You are attracted to her, there's a BIG difference. Girls like to be noticed, so, tell her you like her hair, or her clothes, that's always safe. Since you are the new one at the school, try using that to your advantage, ask her something about the school or teachers, most girls like to be helpful too. Try not to be nervous, take a deep breath and go for it. Good luck.
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I really like him. But Iam not ready for a sexual relationship with him yet. How should I tell hom that? (link)
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I'd let him know...gently...in a way that makes him feel good about himself. Male egos can be really fragile. Also, don't lead him on or tease him, it's not fair, and not how you'd like to be treated. Be nice.
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I have been married to John for 2 years. This has been my experience: Within the first 6 months of our marriage my father passed away. I had to fly across the country to attend the funeral, and stayed for 2 weeks. Upon my return, I found out that John had cheated on me with a prostitute. To make a long story short, I forgave him and we worked really hard on our marriage. Another 6 months went by, and while I was doing laundry, I found 2 movie tickets in his pants pocket. I looked at the date on the tickets, and it happened to coincide with one of the nights he told me he had been “working late.“ Again, we worked on the marriage and got counseling, and things went better.
On Jan. 1st, 2014 he left me. He packed up all of his belongings and left our home. He moved into an apartment with a girlfriend he had been having an affair with for the past 2 months. They lived together for 4 days before he called it quits, and made her move out.
The excuse he gives me for all the cheating incidents is: (in his exact words) “you are a beautiful person, with a beautiful soul. But my sex life with you has always been bad. In fact, it is sh*t.“
He told me that while he doesn´t want to say goodbye to me forever, he wants me to begin seeing other people. When I ask him if he will come back to me, he says he is not ready.
I don´t know what to do. I thought marriage was supposed to be a sacred union lasting for a lifetime. I certainly went into it that way, and I feel that I have done everything possible to make it work. Now, I just feel used. Is there any hope for this marriage to ever heal?
Thank you very much for your attention. (link)
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I am so sorry you are going through this. John is not marriage material, some men are just not committed, and you can't fix this marriage alone. A man that is committed to a marriage would and should tell you if his needs aren't being met, before going to a prostitute, especially considering that you went to counseling. The "sex being bad" comment isn't why a committed man would leave someone. Seems it's easier for him to leave and point the finger at you and your "sexiness" instead of pointing his finger at himself. You need to get a lawyer, and get on with your life, life's too short to waste another minute on him.
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I live in California and my landlord will put these 4x6 inch orange stickers on peoples cars/trucks that park where they aren't supposed to. The stickers are hell to peel of, they leave a paper residue behind, and they are HUGE! I think it's vandalism, because I see peoples windows with the big paper residue on them that takes goo gone to remove, and they obviously are not able to remove them. Is this even legal? It seems like she super glues them on. (link)
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Have you asked your landlord to stop?
Is she doing it to your car?
If you said yes to those then, I would deduct the cost of nail polish remover (Acetone will work on anything) and the cost of my time to scrape it off my car from my rent. True, it isn't a lot of money but it might get her attention. Of course, first, check your lease agreement, I bet it's on there somewhere, and if it is, then you are out of luck.
If it hasn't happened to your car, or someone visiting you, then I would mind my own business, and make sure my friends (and myself) park where I am supposed to.
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Ok I have this crush on this guy for awhile and I really want to get over it .I'm not a feeling person nor am I someone who would tell someone I like them ,so I need help getting over him.every time I'm around him,I always end up saying something stupid.he doesn't even notice me ,the only time he would notice me is when I'm with friends.I know he doesn't like me because he hardley talks to me ,n when we do he seems to see me as a friend way ,I tried avoiding him at school but I don't I try to get him to notice me n I hate it .I just want it to be over.I try talking to new people but it doesn't work .please I need help (link)
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Hmm, I don't know if I would try avoiding him, I actually would try to just be nice to him, and be his friend, in doing so you may find that maybe he isn't "all that." Also, don't assume that he doesn't like you, it sounds to me like he may not even know you that well, if he is your age, he's trying to figure things out as he goes, even if he plays it off like he is confident, trust me, guys at that age are anything BUT confident and cool on the inside.
If thinking about him is making you miserable, promise yourself that every time you think of him, STOP, do something else...paint your nails, read a book, call a girl friend, bake cookies, take a walk, ride a bike, play a video game, write a story, do something for YOU. Talking to new people is a good idea too, stick with it, and give it time....trust me, it gets better. Very few of us have met "the love of our lives" at 13.
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HI!~ I wanna bleach my hair but I don't really know how. Can you use like regular household bleach like clorox to bleach your hair or do you need some special bleach? Thank you! (link)
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I have been coloring hair for years, and yes if you dilute Clorox bleach, you can lighten your hair, but please believe me, there are BETTER, SAFER ways to do this with products from home. Clorox can burn your hair, and it CAN fall out, not only that, the fumes are hard on your nose and lungs. Here is list of household products you can use to lighten hair (I put them in order of effectiveness, 1 being the best)
1. Hydrogen Peroxide sprayed onto hair, left on for 30 minutes, rinse, wash and use a GOOD conditioner. You can do this every day until you get the results you want.
2. Hydrogen Peroxide with lemon Juice, left on hair (30 min) to dry in the sun or with heat from a hair dryer.
3. AN equal mix of Peroxide, baking soda, honey, and conditioner, left on hair for 30 minutes.
Just remember to use a really good conditioner after trying these, you can use these daily until you get the results you want.
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