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What will i do if he does not answer my call anymore
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Reality check, he's probably not busy, even busy guys take phone calls if they are interested, or they at least call you back. He's probably just not interested or has someone else, and doesn't know how to tell you, or doesn't want to deal with it, and that's okay, because he's probably not the one anyway (especially if he's being rude and ignoring you) Best thing to do is back off, go out with friends, meet new people and get on with your life, every day you worry about Mr. Wrong not taking your calls, you could be missing out on meeting Mr. Right...he's out there somewhere.
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Don't act desperate and don't keep calling him. Back off, and go find something else to do. You don't want to chase him. If you are really worried stop by his house and ask him what's up. This guy is either scared to tell you he's not interested in you anymore, or he is just simply busy. Be patient and when he does contact you again the best thing to do is to remain aloof and not care. He will find you more attractive because you have a life and doesn't revolve all around him. I think if he really likes/loves you he will apologize for not calling you and feel bad. If he doesn't then just forget the guy. Because he should care about you and not be a rude jerk. I hope that he does talk to you again. It's rude to just disappear, and I know how much that hurts. So try to be strong!
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When a guy does not answer one call, it could be the timing and he is focused on something else that needs his full attention. If ALL your calls go unanswered, and you know he isn't having problems with the functioning of his cell phone, then you should take it as a sign that he really isn't interested in you. He may have shown some interest at one point but once he got to hang around you enough to know you more, he found that he wasnt all that in to you to continue to pursue you to the next level, beyond attraction.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, and the same goes for guys. There'll always be someone else to meet. I know that doesnt help you feel better if you pinned all your hopes on him or had begun to develop strong feelings. But thats life, and attraction isn't always a two way street with both people attracted to each other long term. Often it can start that way but quickly changes to only one person still interested. There is no way to make a relationship like that work.
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