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How to know that a girl likes you.
I am the ninth grade and i just switched schools. There is this girl in my new school i really like. I have wet dreams about her and sometimes i masturbate about her too. I cannot keep a straight face when i speak to her and she also cannot keep a straight face when speaking to me too. We have caught ourselves stealing glances at each other. I think i like her and i would like to know whether she likes me too and if how best i can tell her i like her. Please help me.
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It sounds like she might be attracted to you too. Just talk to her, get to know her, find out what she likes, if you have a class together, you can use that as an excuse...Ask her for homework. Just don't ask her a hundred questions at once, and don't tell her you like her (because you don't even know her yet.) You are attracted to her, there's a BIG difference. Girls like to be noticed, so, tell her you like her hair, or her clothes, that's always safe. Since you are the new one at the school, try using that to your advantage, ask her something about the school or teachers, most girls like to be helpful too. Try not to be nervous, take a deep breath and go for it. Good luck.
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be straight forward but sweet, its hard but tell her. she sounds like she kinda likes you, so dont give up. dont be creepy
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If she is caught glancing at you and you both tend to smile at each other, thats a sign that each of you find the other attractive. Another sign, is if you both try to find excuses to get near the other person, or seemingly accidently touch them.
To start a conversation, find an excuse to be near enough to start a conversation. Choose a topic of conversation perhaps about the last assembly, the school sports team, a teacher you have in common, or ask how she did on a test. Once you have a conversation started,then its easier to show an interest in asking questions about her. Don't ask rapid fire or it will seem she's being interrogated. Just natural topics non school related that you and other teens talk about...like a favorite band, or the newest movie or book you're read. Whats her favorite genre for example. If she seems to enjoy the conversation and is responding well, then tell her you look forward to talking again with her soon as you enjoyed your chat. You might even ask if its okay to get her number to text her. But if you say something about how you are attracted to how pretty she is on the first time you approach her, there is a chance she could question your sincerity in really wanting to get to know her and be a good friend. Too many girls at this age are finding that the majority of boys have nothing but sex on their minds at this stage and some may think if asked out when you've never spoken before, that you are after experiencing just sex and nothing else. The best thing a guy can do at this stage is become a best friend. All adult relationships worth anything have two people who are best friends who have love and romance too. So take time to get to know her, and tell her that you are just starting to learn about how to talk to and treat girls and ask her for her help. Thats something a guy rarely does cus he's too prideful and embarrased but can be an very endearing thing for a girl to hear and will gain her interest in helping you. During that time, either a natural dating relationship will develop or it won't. Hope this helps a bit.
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