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he won't go out with me!
okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks <33
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I think that he may not be ready for a realation ship but you need to tell him that your not looking for the hole friends with benifits i think that he is a nice and sweet lovible guy but why he wont go out with you say that " i like you and i think i show that when i flirt with you and ask you out ...."act innocent and be like 'what do i do wrong...?"so
hopefuly i helped
katie -><3
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Don't wait around for him. If he thinks you'll always be there he'll take you for granted. If that happens he won't ask you out. So my advise to you is tell him you like him and ask him out, if he says no say fine. Leave it at, find anotherr guy A.S.A.P. That way he will know what he's lost and he'll totally regreat it. If you like him more then the guy your dating, eventually (not right away because you want to make him wait) dump the guy your dating and get with him. It'll work!
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Keep hanging out with him and do stuff with him like friends and then when he is ready he will ask!
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Hi, he sounds quite shy or unsure. Just keep trying and invite him round to your house. Just keep on trying and if he still doesn't want to go out, then your better off accepting that and perhaps become his friend. He might not want what you want. Daniel.
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well... i think that the reason that he wont go out with you is because um.. well most shy boys are scared and worried about what they are going to be getting into. i think you should just act like you normally do like it is just a regular day and eventually you will bring him out of his shell and you will probably be able to date him after he finally comes out of the shell of shyness he is in! well hope i helped
Steph
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Stay a good friend and try to help him through the hard times. Don't press him to date you but don't break the connection, because things will hopefully get better!
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I'd keep on doing what you're doing. Eventually he'll be ready and you'll be there. If something real develops he'll realize you're worth it.
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If you both are doing the flirting(not just you)and you guys still hang out(even while he's trying to work out his problems),then I don't see why you should stay away from him.Be patient while he works out his problems.If he likes you,he'll ask you.
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you asked him out and he said no and he still flirts with you means one thing....hes playing with you hes gorgeous right?usually gorgeous guys are arrogant and like girls to follow the around everywhere so he can go brag to his freinds..look...dont start by flirting with him let him start and when he does flirt then tell him you gotta go somewhere then leave then when he asks you out tell him...um sorry not today and u pick a day...play hard to get...guys take advantage of girls that are easy to get....what comes easy goes easy...hope you got it
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