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Today this girl that I really don't like, but hang out with anyways, asked to see a note that my best friend had wrote me, that said stuff about her in it. ALOT of stuff. I said no because it was mine and she had no right seeing it, she took my purse dumped it out on the floor but I hid it in my desk, and then she randomly got into my desk and found it, I didn't want her to see it, and now I'm afraid my best friend's going to be mad at me, but I'm not sure because I really didn't do anything wrong, right?
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No, you didn't do anything wrong. That girl had no right to invade your privacy like that. If it hasn't gone to your friend yet, my advice would be to tell her first, before the other girl goes up to her and confronts her about the things she wrote. Its always a possibility that your friend might think that you read the note, and then told the girl what she wrote about her. So you should tell her what happened and apologize that it got into her hands.
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You did nothing wrong.
Number 1: The girl had no right to ask to see the note. It's none of her business.
Number 2: You tried to save her from reading the note in the frist place, knowing that there was something written about her in it.
Number 3: She had no right of going through your purse and desk to get the note.
Tell your best friend what happened. How she went through your purse and desk. She's your best friend, she'll understand what happened and she shouldn't be mad at you. If anyone to be mad at its the girl who went through your personal things.
All in all, you did nothing wrong. You tried to stop the girl, serves her right for reading what she read. Your best friend will understand. =)
-Justine
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No, you did nothing wrong. She did though. I hope you told her to find someone else to hang around with from now on. She had no right going through your personal property. :)
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No its not your fault! you tried to stop her so she shouldn't be mad at you for anything. If she goes through your stuff (im assuming this happened at school) tell the principal or someone in the office that she went through your stuff without permission!
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hey=)..just tell you friend what happened..and she should trust you if yall are best friends.. you didn't do anything wrong so she shouldn't get mad. and if you don't like taht grl then talk to her about it!but hoped i help..!
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Your best friend shouldn't be mad at you. You tried your hardest to keep the note away from this girl. She shouldn't be mad at you, and if she is, say, "I'm sorry _______, I tried to keep it away from her, but she kept trying to get it. I hid it in my desk, but she got in there and found it."
Plus, the girl should mind her own business. She shouldn't have been trying to grab the note in the first place. That's your business, not hers.
You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't write it.
I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, just leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*
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you didn't do anything wrong but your friend might still be a little mad because it looks like you did somehting wrong even though you really didn't. Explain to your friend the situation and with some ecplanation and a little time she'll get over it.
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i think you did do the right thing by hiding the note but if your friend is that nosey tell her. Talk about the note and dont be shy or embsrrased about it. If she is really your friend she won't be mad about it.
Hope i helped you! good luck with your talk with her if you take my advice!
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Explain the situation to your friend exactly how you told it here. She will probably understand. Maybe she won't even say anything to your best friend, but on the chance she will... prepare your friend.
Good luck.
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