yesterday was the talent show at our school, and me, and my xbestfriend were both in it, but not together. she went before me, and i was right after her. when i got up on stage i saw her hug the boy i like. i almost choked on a high note. he's not my boyfriend but im still REALLY jealous and REALLY worried he's gonna start liking her. is this normal and what should i do?
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:32 pm: Yes its normal your just a bit jealous! Thats to be expected, get over it find your self a boyfriend and then you will feel happyer and more relaxed.
karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:59 am: Oh it's normal.If you are really worried go after him yourself.Go up to him and start a conversation.Get him to notice you. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Briht_knee_89 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:58 am: hmm.. yea. i understand why your jealous. because a person you don't like is using a person you do like to make you feel that way. if that guy likes you and has respect for you, then maybe you should sit him down and tell him that it bugs you to see him hug her. she's obviously doing it to make you jealous. so don't let it show, or it'll make her feel better and then she'll do more things to aggitate you. x*bestfriends can be wayyyy bogus, sometimes. but shake it off! everything happens for a reason!! <3 hope i helped <3 best of luck sweetums! *britt [ Briht_knee_89's advice column | Ask Briht_knee_89 A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:08 am: Jelousy is totally normal. Its kinda a way of telling that you really like someone and that you care for them. I think that you shoudnt really worry about him liking her and talk to the guy a lot more so he starts liking you. If I sound mean sorry but you cant control how he feels. It might hurt you to see him with someone else but he can hug whoever he wants. To feel jelous is totally normal but hang out with him a lot and you would feel better! x0 ` __ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:38 pm: I think you should confront your friend. Ask her why she did it if she knew you really liked him. You never know, she may not have known, but you should ask and talk to her about it. I know what it feels like to have another girl all up on the guy you like..not saying she was all up on him but you know what I mean. Talk to her, she probably has a reason for doing so. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
freun989 answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:55 pm: I don't think this hug means anything. Her being your ex-bestfriend, she probably has no idea you even like this boy. If you can handle it, talk to her about it. [ freun989's advice column | Ask freun989 A Question ]
punkrockprincess answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:50 pm: I think any girl would react the same way. So I think it's completely normal! If I were you, I would get total payback and flirt with the guy that she likes. Or if you don't know who she likes, then you could always just flirt with the guy that you like to show her that she didn't do anything to piss you off since that's what she probably wanted to do! Don't make her feel like she won and completed her goal to tick you off! Show that you're perfectly fine with what she did and that you could do way better!
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