I'm torn between two guys. They are both really great and I like them both. I have no clue which one I should be with. I know I have to be with one of them, but I don't know what one. *Jake is 16 years old. He's an awesome guy but sometimes we get into fights and say really hurtful things to eachother. But I still really like him, because he always shows that sweet side to him around his friends, when he's known as a "Tough" guy at school. *Erik is 17 (my age) and is an all time sweetheart, he's always there for me when I need him. He's just plan amazing. I like something about both of these guys, but I'd like a little feedback from you guys about what I should do. Which one should I choose/not choose? Thanks.
innocentbabi428 answered Friday March 18 2005, 5:12 pm: Well *Erik seems like a lot nicer guy and the one that you'd be better off with and that would make you happier. You need to find out how each of them feel about you. But just in case Erik doesn't like you doesn't mean you go right to Jake. With Jake, it's not a good sign with the arguing and especially when he's known as a tough guy at school and is different around everyone else. I dated a guy like that and he turned out to be a real jerk. It shows that he might not be a totaly honest person and he might try to be someone he's not. Erik also seems like he's a good friend but if he doesn't like you don't let it ruin the friendship, it'll make it even worse. But he's the type of guy you want to be with since he's always there for you when you need him. Hope I helped and I know how you feel and where you're coming from. Good Luck
BLONDE911 answered Friday March 18 2005, 12:23 pm: Well i think you should go with Erik he sounds perfect! Sweet, your age, always there for you, sounds like prince charming to me! Jake on the other hand, well you fight and say hurtful things, thats a warning right ther! Hoped i helped! xoxo BLONDE911 [ BLONDE911's advice column | Ask BLONDE911 A Question ]
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