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ok... so I've kind of been with this guy for a while now... and it's starting to get sexual... and I've never done anything sexual before so I'm pretty clueless. OK so he keeps feeling me up and I know I need to give him a hand job back... but I just don't know how. I mean does it have to be up before I start rubbin or what? and if it does what do I do to get it up... and idunno how fast to do it either... I don't wanna hurt him or anything and make him think I'm stupid... I obviously know the general motion.. I'm not THAT clueless... but yea. I guess I'm just looking for any tips on giving hand jobs and kind of 'instructions' I guess
Thanks
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You do not have to do anything you don't want to. Ever. That being said, ask him what he likes. I am sure he would be more than happy to show you. And besides its good to keep communication going no matter what you are doing.
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The best way of getting sexual with someone, is knowing them so well, and being able to talk to them about anything. Instead of giving you tips for handjobs, I am going to suggest to you that it is way easier to ask him what he likes, just ask while you guys aren't getting sexual, say, "Hey, if I give you a handjob, what really turns you on?" and let him show you, trust me, asking is WAY better than instructions from people over the net.
-TheTeenGirl
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Awp, poor thing. Sure, what the bloody hell?
Lets say youre in an intimate situation with your BF... he's feeling you up, and its great. You want to pay him abcl, with a handjob or the such. Well, to answer your first question, yes, his penis /does/ need to be erect in order for you to actually do it.... and it doesn't matter how fast you do it. It can be slow for a prolonged pleasureable feeling, or fast for a 'quickie' most would call it. OR You could do it fast, and when you feel him tense up, ready to come, slow down and let him enjoy that feeling that he's on the edge, and continue for awhile.... and lets hope he doesn't think you're stupid if it's your first time... things liek that come over time, you gain experience over your experience-s! He won't think your stupid if he loves you, if he has patience then you have a true man there. If he has that, you should never let go, ever.
And how to get him erect? Cripes, just touching him will get him horny! I know it does with me, but... for a better experience, most would try to gain an arousal with oral sex and then if you wanted either continue on with that or just give the hand job. A sec life for people such as your age can revolve around mutal masturbation, because there are so very many different ways for each gender to have it applyed. Experiment ;P <3 EJ!
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uhhh haha, well you should at least tell him str8 up, you've never done it before...he'll probably direct you to what ya need to do...he's the one feeling it...-n- naw it aint got to be hard before you do it, thats what gets him hard, if he aint hard already lol
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