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I met this really cool guy at a party a couple of weeks ago and we had like everything in common. He seemed a little bit interested in me that night, but it was hard to tell. He got my screen name from my friend and he IMed me and said he wanted to do something that weekend. Plans didn't really seem to work out 2 weeks in a row. He definatly seemed interested like a week ago and he kept trying to see me. I kept telling myself not to get too hooked on the guy because I just met him and I need to get to know what he's like. Plus I didn't want to get hurt if things didn't work out. So my friends asked if he liked me and he said he wasn't sure because he doesn't really know me, but that I'm an amazing girl. So naturally being a girl, I plan out this whole relationship in my head not being able to control myself. The past week we haven't talked much and when we have he didn't seem to still be interested at all. He didn't say anything about maybe doing something this weekend, which he normally would've done at this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for falling for him because now I'm feeling really sad about the whole thing. I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and I've been searching for someone, but I didn't like anyone until I found him. Do you think he still likes me and I'm just reading too into it? And am I crazy for being so obsessive? Like maybe he's just busy this weekend or something... I don't know, but I'm confused and I just want to get over it!
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IM him and say hey, I thought we were getting together, what happened.Go from there.
You guys have to communicate if you're ever going to have a relationship.So start with IM and then don't just let it hang there...follow up!
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You like him, face it, it'll take a lil while for you get over it. But it will pass. Sorry you havent had a relationship in over two years. But there will be one that comes along that is just right for you. Keep waiting,because something good will come along. And as far as this guy you like right now, just ask him if he wants to get to know you, to where the two of you could be more than friends...whats it gonna hurt ?
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Nope you are pretty much normal. If he can't get some time when he asks, why don't you tell him when you might be available. You aren't going to get to know him until you at least chat on the phone or online for a while. We do crazy stuff in our head all the time. It part of the business of love. So just have fun, and don't get too serious too quickly.
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Talk to him. Tell him how you feel maybe he is scared and guys get scared too. So just tell him how you feel and ask how he feels
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uhhh, calm down...lol he's probably just getting aggravated at the fact everytime ya'll make plans they never work out, so he probably already figures if he tried again it wont work...just keep trying, sooner or later it'll work out
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