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Moving
Hey, my family might move from here in Wisconsin to Florida. I want to sooo bad for the weather. But I just can't leave all my friends here. i love em all to death. And my best friend and I are really close and it will be so hard for me to leave her, and everyone else. How can I not miss her so much??
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well- this is a horrible thing-
but i know, from this site it has happened to other people, and my best friend did it to me too!
my best friend got in a huge fight with me before she moved- and i thought i was going to miss her like crazy! but i dont miss her at all, i actually am realizing, how much better off i am with out her, and how bad she made me, but i know this may not be the same in your case.
and now....*drum Roll*...for a better answer...
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Write to her every day!! and mail her letters, and pictures ect, and e-mail her, and i/m. visit her! have her come stay with you!! and vice versa!!
write her notes in class as if she were there, and mail them to her!
depending on the money situation- you could have a note book, and you write in it for one week, then mail it to her, then her write in it the next week, then her mail it to you.
or, you could each have one, and mail them to eachother on, i duno lets say wednesday! lol, and then you could each be writing back and forth!! it could be pretty cool!!
Hope I Helped-
Best Of Luck!
Miss KeLc
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awww that happened to me sept i wuz the best friend left behind :'( my bff moved to india and like NEVER comes back to visit! i miss her so much but we call each other and write whenever we get the chance. i also have a picture of her next to my bed so that its like shes with me all the time. i have memories of her all over my room too...like things we used to do together all the time and they always remind me of her. so jsut always imagine taht ur w/ her and keep her close emotionally. <3 j
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Hey! I've been moving all my life... 6 times actually. You'll always miss her, but you can always write her letters over snail mail... email eachother... and the time difference is nothing. You could talk to eachother on instant messanger at least a few times a week =) Also maybe you could work it out that you could talk to her on the phone once a week... or every other week. And maybe she could even come visit you- or you could visit her once a year! =) Hope I helped.
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its very hard to move away from a place where you have established many things like friends, however although it may be very difficult at first you may love the change! you can stay in contact with your close friends and have them fly down for a visit! or maybe she can go with you there while you move and her parents can fly her back. you never know. you may love to start a new life in a beautiful warm place! and eventually you will see your friend, if the friendship is strong enough...it will make it through this! and maybe you two can make plans so that when you both turn 18 you can move in together! maybe shell want to move to florida!
good luck
shianne
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I had the same problem! I lived in Wisconsin and I had to move to Texas. I really didn't want to but its ok now. My best friend lives in Wisconsin and we see eachother every summer. I normally talk to them on IM everyday and write. It was really sad at the beginning but its ok now. I hope I helped you! Have fun in florida!
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call ,write,and email her and you will make new friends to help you fell more at home too just think of it as a vaction you can vist it her in the summer and stuff it will be ok
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Keep in touch!
It's basically the only way you guys can not forget about here. Just don't lose contact because that's when it all goes wrong.
I'm sure if you guys keep touch you'll stay friends.
Good Luck
♥Em
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It's natural for you to miss someone alot. I moved from Ohio down to Florida. And I really missed everyone but after I moved down I made more friends and trust me it gets easier after a month or too.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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There is no way to miss her BUT if you keep in touch it is better. Call everynow and again in the evenings and write both letters and emails. Also exchange photos of each other. Talk with your parents and see if you can go up and visit over the summer. My friend moved to Mali africa and that is how we keep in touch. I miss her A LOT but just getting something from her makes me feel better. Hope you can work something out!!
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Promise her that you will vist her and ring her everyday and keep intouch because shes your best friend and nothing will replace her.
luv roxie
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My best friend moved to Florida when we were still in high school. We kept in touch with letters and phone calls. Since you are living in the glorious age of technology, keeping in touch should be easy and cheap. You can email each other and IM frequently.
Just because your moving out of state doesn't mean that your friendship is over. My best friend and I are still close friends, years and years later. It sucks that I can't drive over to her house to hang out, but at least I can still call her and find out what's going on her life.
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You say you "might" move, so is there a chance that you don't? I think that if the chances are big, try bonding with that best friend of yours as much as possible before you move. CARPE DIEM. Build solid friendships that distance won't tear apart, and afterwards, make sure to keep in touch. But remember this -- keeping in touch is completely useless if one of the two parties feel obligated to do so.
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you can write letter. There is always email and IM.phone calls. You'll miss her even with all that though because good friends just do! Maybe she can come enjoy some sun on vaction sometime.
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ok... you have it easy... i moved to africa from texas... i had to leave all of my friends and if you wanna still be good friends with them you gotta do wat i do. all ways talk to them on-line or on the phone every day or everyother day. i wake up at like 3 am every morning just to talk to them. this will prevent you from having to forget about them. and when ever you can, try and visit them. thats wat i do. i hope i helped
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My good friend moved in December, and it was hard on everyone especially him because he left his home! There is no way you'll miss her less...you'll miss her like crazy and will probably cry a lot too! But look you shouldent focus so much on the bad things (like not seeing her at all). You can email, IM, talk on the phone, whatever! If you do move for sure...one thing you must do is keep in contact with all friends! Do it for your friends..they miss you! And plus, I'm sure your family will visit once in a while:)
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Promise each other that no matter what, you will stay in touch. Write letters, email each other, talk over instant messenger. My best friend is probably moving to North Carolina in the summer, and I know if we stay in touch, we can stay friends. Best wishes! Send me something if you need to talk. ♥ Kristen
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That happened to me a year ago, but I'm still really close with my bestfriends (even though they are half away around the world, literally) because I always call them and we write letters and e-mails to each other.
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