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going out
Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what?
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I think you should at least go out on one date with him, maybe it'll change your mind.
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Like you said you're confused. Go out with him somewhere once and see how it goes. There's nothing to lose really. Just because you're going out with him once it doesn't mean you have to start dating the guy.
Seriously though, get to know him a little more and then see what you think of him. If you still don't like the idea of dating him then just leave at that, friends and that's it but don't just jump in to a relationship with this guy, or any guy just because you want a boyfriend. It would be a stupid thing to do.
Good Luck, hun.
♥Em
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I think you should get to know him a little more and then decide whether or not to go out with him. Go in groups and talk with him. Find out what he is like and his personality. If you find that you like his personality and who he is then go ahead and date him. But if you go out with him now then you might regret it without knowing him.
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well, i would say- be his friend and then see what happens! and i bet you are attractive, us girls are really critical of ourselves. lol.
No worries!!
its all gonna be okay!!
Try being friends first, and see how it works out! sometimes him as your friend is better than him as your boyfriend!
also, try praying! No one can help you more, or give better advice than God and Jesus!!!!
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Best Of Luck-
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No that wouldn't really be fair on the guy if you went out with him for the sake of it. It's really easy to say but the right guy will come along at some point but it's true! You wouldn't be happy if you went out with this guy cos you know yourself that it would be for the wrong reasons. good luck
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the two of you should go to dinner and a movie together as friends and see how things go...maybe even do that a few times to get to know eachother better and then make your decision...dont jump to sayin yes just to have a boyfriend...you will regret it and you may hurt him...hope i helped~!~xoxo~!~NICHOLE~!~xoxo~!~
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Just try some *friend* dates and see what happens from there. If you have strong connections then go for it! If there isnt any connection, then just tell him you are better off friends. I hope you figure it out! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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Well, honey, just go out on like a friend night out or something! It's not a date or anything, but the both of you are going to like find out about each others feelings and like yeah. From there, see what your hearts tell each other. Like, just don't play around with him chick! Good luck!
The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
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hey i'm in the same position as you are..maybe you can go on a date or few with him and see how you like him when you guys hang out one and one and if maybe you start to like him more..Maybe give him a chance and see how you and him both feel..and if u dont think it would work then u shud tell him
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I don't see any harm in giving it a try.No need to be exclusive or anything.Who knows, you might like him better once you get to know him.If not, no harm done.
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Never date a guy for the reasons you are giving to me. Its wrong, and hurtful. If you're lonely keep him as your friend, and it doesn't matter if you havn't had a boyfriend in a long time, you don't need to join in the teen girls' competition, you are better than that, you need to wait until you actually feel something for him, if he feels something for you, than make sure to tell him right away that you don't feel the same. But, no matter how he feels about you, you do not have to feel the same, you feel what you feel, and it needs to be kept that way, and this guy is from last week! So, you need to wait more.
-TheTeenGirl
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well if you dont wanna go out with him, its that easy dont go out with him and keep him as a good friend and go out and look for the right guy that you want to go out with. cause if you go out with that guy friend of yours, and then u break up, you might ruin the relationship you had before. i hope i helped.
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friends should stay friends and be nothing more, because one of you would fuck it up and not be friends at all. if you go out with him and dont like it just tell him that and he should agree with you because youre friends
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