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ok so i have this friend that i know loves me like a sister but doesnt act like it. when were always talking, she blows things out of porportion. and i feel bad b/c sometimes i make it seem like i'm mad at her even though i am but i dont want it to seem like that. it really sucks because shes a sister i never had and i dont want it to be like this. i'm so sick and tired of her doing the things she does and it sucks! ugh...! help
♥ much
CRaZy OuT Of MY MinD
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alot of times friends are mean to each other just BECAUSE of how close they are. Just like you said...like sisters. But sometimes they dont think that the other person really gets hurt by wat they say..or mad. So just try talking to her seirosuly and telling her wut you feel. If yall are as close as you say she should totally understand. Make sure you say it in a caring way you dont want her to get the wrong idea! Hope i helped!
Gaby
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What you could do is to figure out what is wrong with her there must be a reason why she is like that.I'm considering she should get counseling to speak out her mind with someone or ask her why maybe she'll tell you.She probably might be going through depression you never know.Try getting along when she does do something that bothers you just tell her she shouldn't do that because how would she feel if you would do the same thing to her.I understand when you say she is like a sister to you it must mean a lot to you to get along with her.So do what you can to maintain that friendship.
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hey maybe you should talk to you friend/sister about how you feel and you can work on your relationship
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Hey!! I have a friend JUSt like this... she talks about her only 2 best friends behind our backs, and she lies about just about everything! She blows things WAY out of proportin just like your friend, and she is... lets just say far from shy when it comes from guys.
I know exactly how this feels... when we are not around anybody else, just the 2 of us, she acts like a sister.. but whenever we get around others, she gets HORRiBLE! I find the best way is to sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her how much it hurts you that she acts like this. Tell her that you're not really mad you just want her to stop acting like this.
okay i hope this helped!!! if you have any other questions, just ask me!
<3, RiLeY
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just remind yourself why both of you are friends?
remember all the good times you had with her and try to forget the bad times. now think, do you really want to lose someone who you really care about?
just talk to her and tell her how you are feeling, if she's like your sister like you said she is then im sure she'll understand.
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