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What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?
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Hello there,
You have every right to be mad at your family for not sticking up for you.
Do they give any reason for leaving you to fend for yourself?
Are they hoping that you will become tough if they abandon you?
I would ask them directly why it is that they aren't taking better care of you.
If they have no reason, tell them that it hurt your feelings and makes you feel like you aren't part of the family.
This pisses me off just hearing about it.
DangerNerd.
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Stand up for yourself confront them and show them how they've made you feel
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Yes, you have every right to be mad!
Just tell them how you feel about them not sticking up for you. tell them that if it happens again you'd like them to be a little more defensive about it.
Maybe they just didn't want you to be embarassed about your disability or something so they didn't say much...
Well it wasn't much, but I hoped I helped! Good luck! -RiLeY
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You certainly have the right to be mad.
How old are you? It may be time to stick up for yourself a little. Friends and family may not alway's be there to defend you.
Did the offender know of your disability? I ask because not all are obvious and you didn't say.
Is offender someone who know's you or a stranger?
There are people in the world who are really insensitive and they aren't all that way on purpose. You might want to ask fam/friend's why thay didn't say anything.
If you think the answers to the questions I asked will help me give youo a better answer, drop the answers in my inbox and i'll try again.:)
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well you can't hold a grudge forever, but yea I'd be pissed if one of my friends, much more my family did that. Have you confronted them about how your mad? if they have said sorry than you should forgive them, there really isn't anyway to completely heal the problem.
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yes oyu do have he right to be mad if someoen made fun of a disability of yours, i mean you are just the same as anyone else. its not your fault you have adisability, and for your family to not defend you when you feeling sad, is wrong. I would talk to them about this situation, ans ask why the didnt defend you when this person made you feel bad...because it obviously hurt you. hope i helped! Good luck!
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Yes, you have the right to be angry. Everybody does. But I don't really know what you should do because I don't know the entire situation. What is your disability and what did they say about you?
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Yea you have every right to be mad at them because they were supposed to have your back and defend you and they didnt. x0
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It's your choice whether or not you want to be mad, but being mad isn't going to help your situation any.
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you have every right to be mad your family should of backed you up had your back they are your flesh and blood i would just tell your family how come you didn't defend me your suppose to we are family. tell them how you really feel that way if they see your mad then they might want to do something to help.
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Of course you have every right to mad! Nobody should offend anyone, and I know, that's kinda an 'idealist' type thing, but I think you should, with words, show whoever said something offensive, who's boss around here. Just tell them that they had no right whatsoever to say what they did.
If it gets bad, get a higher autority than the cops involved, like, a policeman or a principal.
Goodluck!
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i think you need to tell them about this i mean you would defend them right? so why should they not defend you....
you are important and they are in the wrong so yes i say you have the right to be wrong with your family and friends i wish you good luck with this problem and plz rate me,AskNick
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Yes you have a right to be mad at both your friends and family, Tell them that when that person offended you not one of you stook up for you. And that its not my fault i have a disablity, I though that you would understand that. When you have said that walk away then they well see that they have hurt you, buy not standing up for you.
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Right nobody has the right to bring you down nobody has the right to make u upset. If your family are not sticking up for you when something is bothering you then i think that you should sit down with them and talk tot hem about why they never stick up for you or defend you. with your friends not sticking up for you then i ma sorry to say this but then they are not your true friends, true friends stick by all the time through hard and easy times and in your case this is a hard time for you so if they are not sticking by you then they are not your true friends
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Samantha
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Disability or no, no one should bring you down and say offensive things to you. The solution is not to yell and make things even worse. You need to talk to them calmly and make them understand what they just said to you. Are you sure your family and friends are not defending you? Perhaps you just have not explained to them what is happening and that you would like more support from them. Keeping your feelings bottled up makes you feel bad, AND no one knows how you are really feeling. Don't look down upon yourself and say people won't offend you just because you have a disability. Everyone is offended in some way or another. And we all have to work it out calmly. I hope you get the respect you want.
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you should be fuckin pissed off!! first you should talk to your family in a loud, emotional and agressive way! get them to understand wat just happened. you have all the rights on earth to be mad. tkae control of this!
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