|
BF
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I'll try to stop... im sorry. not much to say, just, sorry
]
well it seems to me like this relationship is moving no where but down....with no stops. sorry to say but he kinds sound slike a jerk and you deserve better, and he doesnt deserve you. Theres is not one good thing listed her about your bf. what kind of bf leaves you a really bad feedback message on a public website! You didnt even really say anything wrong. Something a relationship needs is trust...and if he lies, then trust is not there which means the relationship is incomplete...so its not ful on other words or not good. I htink you need ot tell him what you think about him...and in a way...i dont think his reaction will be all to calm either by the way you described him. I htik you need ot move on from this guy...hes not worth fussing over..Hope i helped! Good Luck!
]
I think that you should just talk to him about your problem. Tell him that he plays too too much and that you guys are losing your connection and that you want it back. Also tell him that you want to understand his feelings and where he's coming from because you would like ot cheer him up, but you can even help him out because he never expresses or shows signs of his feelings. I think that he needs to stop being immature and act like a real boyfriend. That may sound harsh, but eve you know it's true. Tell him that you like joking around with him, but sometimes he takes it too far that you can't stand it. Get through him so that he can start to change. I hope you get your relshionship back on track and I hope I helped!
]
Hi,
Well, first of all, to get rid of that feedback, just delete your answer to that question - that'll get rid of the question and it's feedback.
I know it's really hard to do this, and you can do it over email/IM if you're too shy, but you need to have a proper talk with him. You have to tell him that this lying is really getting on your nerves. Just because he told you afterwards doesn't make it alright. Tell him that he has to get his act together, so to speak, or you and him are over. Make it sound like a serious conversation from the start - tell him that if he doesn't stop this lying at least for this conversation, then you're walking away. If he's too immature to stop for ten minutes then he isn't worth the bother
You shouldn't stay somewhere you aren't happy, hun (just remember that there's a difference between someone who makes you happy and being scared that you won't find anyone else if you leave someone)...but don't give up at the first hurdle. You two need to work at your issues (he may have something that bugs him about you too - make sure you ask) and then, even if the relationship doesn't work out, at least you can say you've tried.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
]
Tell him to stop. Dont just let him do that. Let him know that he isnt gonna do that whenever he wants. Ignore him for a while and see if he would care and if he does tell him how it feels. Maybe you guys are better of as friends because he doesnt seem like a really good boyfriend right now. Try to work things out! Good luck! x0
]
First off have a little talk with him. Tell him if he keeps joking around that it's over. Explain that the little 'jokes' as he probably calls them are starting to hurt. He shouldn't be asking you stuff on your advice column and them giving you bad feedback. Ask him to stop the lies or you're stopping the relationship. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
P.S. What is your username? Leave it in the feedback. I'll read it and from what I see if I can help you more I'll leave some more advice in your inbox.
]
Take control and say to yourself "STOP" look around if your boyfriend is going to be a jerk who needs him i think you need to tell him to clean up his act and that if he does not clear up his act that you are dumping him you have to be nasty to be nice sometimes........
i wish you good luck and plz rate me.....
AskNick
]
sounds like this so called boyfriend dosn't really want to be in a relationship at the moment at the and of the day you cannot be in a relationship were there are lies and decite. you need to sit down and talk to him and ask him how much her really wants you or weather he justs wants to be friends and it will probaly make you upset if he turns around and says i want to be friends but at the end of the day you and i can see that this relationship is not the right one for you. i hope everthing goes right
x x
]
From what you've told us, sounds to me your boyfriend is better off as a guy friend. Sounds like he jokes around more than he is affectionate with you. Most guys are like this. You should talk to him about how you are feeling. If you can't work it out, I think you two are better off as friends, not in a romantic relationship. Dating is about exploring, not just confining yourself to one person you're unsure of.
]
Talk to him tell him to stop. Ignore him for awhile. If he continues.. i guess its time.
♥ Michelle
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|