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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend (link)
you need to tell your friend that "this is her your boyfriends and that if she carries on doing what she does then you can not stay friends with her" if your boyfriend loves you he will tell her aswell and if lee is seeing this he will realise that she is jst using him and to get rid of her straight away


Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear? (link)
The best thing to do in this situation i either buy a little bag and a lock and lock them up in a little bag or an even better idea is to but them in someone elses suitcase or to hide them in whateva arpartement,villa that you are staying in.
but just in case this dosn't work then you need tot ell a responsible parent that will do something about it it cannot carry on like this if your frien d came ova would he go throw her bag
thanks


I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship. (link)
right then you love him;there is such thing as love at 14 because my mom and da met when they were 14 and they are married now but you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel and ask him how he feels bout you

to have a boyfriend you need to make time a boyfriend is not just like a teddy bear that you can throw away whenever you want then pick it up agen.

a boy will want to do things with you like kiss you and maybe do other things but aslong as you are ok wiv it then there is no problem jsut don't mess him around


I was very intruiged by a previous question about the world ending. It got me thinking, many people have alterior motives. Such as Andrew Jackson, did he put the cherokees through the Trail of Tears becasue he wanted to save them from the Georgians, or did he move them because he was racist. Also, im sure many other people had alterior motives toward what they did, like Hitler, Stalin, Martin Luther King Jr. I'm not attempting to be biases here, so don't immediatly assume that i think hitler is a racist bastard, because im a Jewe. And don't i hate Stalin because he's a communist bastard, because im Russian. Im not black though, that would just be weird. A black, jewish, russian guy? Anyway, back to the question, many people chose alterior motives, but why is that? Is it for self-benefit (which is whati beleive is the main reason), is it for society, or is it just so they can have something for themselves and only themselves? Take as long as you want to answer, ill read it all. (link)
some people chose alterior motives because that is how they want to be and they like to talk bout it but at the end of the day it is not my subject nad really this question i the hardest question that i have to answer but i have done my best

thank you


Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal? (link)
well....it depend really if the guy's don't mind it then i surpose that there is nothin wrong with it but at the end of the day you need to be xtra carefull when you have these "urges" because some people may find it uncounfortable. It is up to you weatehr you would like to be gay when you are older but at the ned of the day just be careful

thank you


my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help! (link)
sounds like this so called boyfriend dosn't really want to be in a relationship at the moment at the and of the day you cannot be in a relationship were there are lies and decite. you need to sit down and talk to him and ask him how much her really wants you or weather he justs wants to be friends and it will probaly make you upset if he turns around and says i want to be friends but at the end of the day you and i can see that this relationship is not the right one for you. i hope everthing goes right
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What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do? (link)
Right nobody has the right to bring you down nobody has the right to make u upset. If your family are not sticking up for you when something is bothering you then i think that you should sit down with them and talk tot hem about why they never stick up for you or defend you. with your friends not sticking up for you then i ma sorry to say this but then they are not your true friends, true friends stick by all the time through hard and easy times and in your case this is a hard time for you so if they are not sticking by you then they are not your true friends

thank you
Samantha
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