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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend
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tell the bitch to get off your man than beat her ass/.
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I would take this issue from a different angle and talk to your boyfriend first. It is both your responsibility to take care of this issue for the sake of your relationship, but simply being snubbed by your boyfriend might be enough to get rid of this girl. Failing that, you and your boyfriend will have to work together to show her that this is not the proper way to behave. Good luck, people like this can get really annoying sometimes, let me tell you.
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tell her to step off your man, he's your boyfriend and not hers tell lee what she's doing or tell her that you're going to tell him if she doesn't back off of your boyfriend and leave him alone
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If this girl is really your friend, she wouldn't pursue your boyfriend, now would she? Talk to her about it and ask her to stop. If she doesn't, I would reconsider your friendship. Hope I helped!
*Manders*
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umm straight up tell the bitch :) make it clear your boyfriend is YOURS..and she needs to keep her hands where you can see them..dont let no one mess with your man like that..hes yours for a reason and you need to make that clear to her and if shes able to do that to you then shes obviously not a good friend nor a good girlfriend..add me to your friends list and let me kno what happens!! xOx
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i think you should just tell her she shouldnt be flirting with your boyfriend and be spending more time with lee
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You tell her it's really rude flirtting with your boyfriend. Not to mention that it's something a friend would never do. Then you might also want to have your boyfriend tell her to stop it. She probably will if he tell's her to. :)
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Well, Honey, She Isn't No Friend Of Your Honestly, Because If She Was Your Friend She Wouldn't Be Doing You Like That.. If I Were You I Would Just Come Out And Tell Her. You Should Talk To Your Boyfriend About It, And Her. And If She Is Really Your Friend, She Will Realize It Is Gitting To You, And She Will Stop. But If Shes Those Other Kind Of Girls, Well, You Are Just Going To Have To Set Her Straight.
Thank Yah!=))
Savannah
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Well talk to her and get it starigh she should now that Lee is her Boyfriend and if she i going to go and flrit with other guys why is she dating Lee anyway!!
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What a friend you have. Tell her what you are feeling. I think it is wrong when your friend likes your boyfriend. Remind her that Lee is her boyfriend and tell her you dont like her flirting with yours. If she doesn't understand that, she is not worth being your friend.
-Brianna
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You should just tell her that she is dating "Lee" and not your boyfriend, or you should just tell her to stay away from yours. This may help too, when you are with your boyfriend don't be with her at all that may help.
hope i helped
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State it bluntly. She's lying to both of them either way. If she really cares about your boyfriend (and who knows, it's entirely possible that she does!) then it's recommended that she break up with Lee because otherwise she's just lying to him about her feelings and being a jerk. And if Lee and your boyfriend are best friends, he'll be pretty mad at her for leading him on. Don't take it from the perspective of his boyfriend, but as her friend. Tell her the same thing you would tell anyone in that situation, 'if you don't have feelings for him, don't go out with him'.
If jealousy is another component, realize that your boyfriend chose YOU not her. Talk to her about how uncomfortable it makes you feel to have her flirting with him right in front of you and ask her nicely if she will stop because he's your boyfriend and you don't appreciate that in your friendship.
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You need to tell her that it's good that she likes your BF... as a friend... tell her how you feel and that you don't like it how she always flirts with him. Tell her she's going out with Lee not you BF. MAke sure you really tell her YOUR feelings.. a true freind would understand.
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You need to say, "hey, you're suppose to be my friend, you're dating Lee, so please stop talking about my guy like hes yours, I don't like what you're doing." You've got to be blunt with her, meaning just say whatever you have to say to make her realize shes hitting on her friends' guy. You should probably get your guy to say, "ok, stop flirting, I'm not interested in you, I'm dating [you] and not you." Yes, he needs to say that, because if he lets it happen, she thinks its ok and that hes responding to it in the way she wants. Tell Lee about this, too. Hes being "played" behind his back basically, shes dating a guy while truly loving someone else. You will probably get denial from her, but you have to bring things up, like, "oh really, what about that time at the library when you kept getting close to him?" Show a little proof and get some from your guy. He better support you in this, because you need to get your friend off of whats yours.
-TheTeenGirl
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you need to tell your friend that "this is her your boyfriends and that if she carries on doing what she does then you can not stay friends with her" if your boyfriend loves you he will tell her aswell and if lee is seeing this he will realise that she is jst using him and to get rid of her straight away
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Tell her straight say your dating lee and im date what every your bfs called. She shouldnt be acting this way because your friends and she should no that one rule of been friends done go out with exs or flirt with friends boyfriends.
Be honest and tell her that it bugs you, that she doesn that.
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