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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx
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well your right im not going to say that your to young and nobody can stop you but if your asking for advice it seems to me that your not sure if your compeletly ready but rember the choice is yours and every thing has connquences
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i say if you want to do it then go for it. its your choice and i dont think its a big deal to have sex at a young age... i would recommend trojan condoms... and, just to let ya know, its gonna hurt alot the first time!
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KK girlly it is gonna hurt REALLY bad, and does not really feel good the first time or two but after that it will. You will bleed a little, not much tho. And don't be imbarrased of it tho, guys know that that is going to happen. Use Trojan or LifeStlye condoms (Trojan is the best) Make sure they are lubricated condom, and that it is the right size for him. And make sure you pee before, because with all the pressure sometimes you can urinate during intercourse without knowing it. The firstime it is best if he is on top and make sure he goes slow.
Well goodluck and have fun!
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Ok, I have experience in this subject. I lost my virginity when i was 13. I don't know if I was ready yet, and many people will say that I was way too young. Looking back,I don't regret any of it. I am actually glad that I did it at that age. Here are a few thing that I would like you to think about though. Are you really ready? Is he pressuring you, or do you really want to do this? If you think you are ready, then go ahead. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Just don't be irresponsible when you do so. USE PROTECTION. There are guys out there that don't want to use condoms. MAKE THEM!! I have to admit, condoms suck, and it feels like 100% better without one on, but the fact of the matter is that one night of pleasure does not outweigh years and years of missing parties and growing up, because you were too busy parenting. Use protection CORRECTLY, and there is nothing to worry about. Don't worry about what your friends have to say. They have their own opinions on sex. If you are ready, take the proper precautions, and do it. You'll soon find out what the hype is all about. Good Luck!!
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If you have any doubts whatsoever, don't do it. You are only 14 years old, and I'm a teenager too, but I'm older than you and I know that mentally at 14 I was not ready for it. Even if you think you love him, he might break up with you after he "has his fun". TRUE LOVE WAITS, so don't force yourself into this if you aren't totally 100% happy. And, if you're gonna do it anyway, I'd recommend protection. If you need anything, just message me. Hope I've Helped ♥
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Okay im not going to tell you not to do it cause your age..if your mature for it then your ready.. um it does hurt the first time but its nothing you cant handle..and use lifestlye condoms or trogan.. maybe get on birth control so you dont worry bout pregnancy so much cause that can really stress you out.. much luv x0x0
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You should go for it. As long as you use protesction, and let him worry sbout what kind of condom is good for him. You just make sure you see the box before so you know it's okay with you. Some girls bleed on their first time so you should expect to bleed about right after the first time. Just make sure you're ready and you should also think about birth control, but that would mean telling your mother (i think). And you and him need to talk about what if you get unconfortable and wanna stop. It does happen, and you need to know that if you say I wanna stop that he'll stop. Good Luck!
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