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In The Middle Of Lunch Time!
This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
*jEsS*
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ok well a boner is a slang term that means a man's erection. When boys and men become sexually excited — by sexual thoughts, wet dreams, or sex play with themselves or another person — their penises fill with blood and get hard and erect. sorry for the details but you miight need to noe so he might have been attracted to you or he just got one for no reason :)hope it helps.
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DAMN, Bitch you must be stupid fly let him pull up to yo bumpa and smack yo monkey ;)
and ps he might have been thinking about doin stuff to u or looking at yo tits or ass or somethin and that might be why he got a boner please rate 1-5
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happens to me all the time. and even when i don't intend it to. but that's how it works. like for example a girl i know will like lay her head on my shoulder and i'll get one. or i sit next to her and i get one. or i think of her and i get one...hmm she really makes me horny. hahaha
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well i guess you can be happy, on the pluse side, you can now fell free to ask him out, he has made it clear that he more than likes you.
0_o molly
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MAYbE hE WAS AttRACtEd tO YOU. hEY iT COUld hAPPEN.....=)
♥ Amber
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Well, sometimes guys get boners at wrong times...some of my guy friends get them like that too...don't worry about it...shit happens!!! lol!
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ok well it probley did mean that he is attracted to you i mean hey if you gave him a boner then there has got to be something there .. now all you gotta do is figure out if he is just attracted to you or if he really likes you !! good luck ..
shaiina
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Ok, yes! guys usually get an erection (AKA: hard-on, boner, stiffy, woody) when they get aroused, but sometimes they get an erection for no reason at all. (I like to call that spontaneous wood). Truth of the matter is that he may or may not have had his erection because you turned him on or "aroused" him. Maybe he was picturing you naked in his mind, or maybe he had his "boner" before you even talked to him. Whatever the reason is, don't feel offended about his erection. If you turned him on, think of it as a complement. That you are sexy enough to get him "aroused". Unless he is putting you into a very uncomfortable situation, just ignore it. Understand that he is growing up also and his body is changing and "uncontrolable" things happen. His hard-on is not gross, it is part of human anatomy, when you get older, you'll appreciate it, trust me!! Have Fun!!
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Heh, its alright. I would know, I have to deal with it. Daily -.-; Aprt from that
Men get erections a lot each day. They can't control them, and they seem to pop up out of nowhere. It can be because they're thinking of someone they like (you, maybe? ;) )) the temperature in the room could have triggered it, etc.
But if he likes you, then this, is a very good sign >:P
<3 EJ
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dear jess,
well yes he must have some attraction towards you. don't worry too much about it. every boy goes through it. i dunno maybe you two could hook up or something. lol.
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Well....Puberty Hits...and it hits hard...I'm sure you are trying to be mature about this, But i must say that this is completely normal for young adult males to experience. You have to understand that at this age the male reproductive organ...Or his penis...Is going through changes.Hormones that he has no control over are taking over his body. Although It might be true that you might of arroused the young man, you must understand that at this age young men cant control their errections, thus making an embarrassing impact on their lives. So in other words you cant blame the poor guy on something uncontrolable like this, so if you like him ,let him know you are mature about it and overlook what happened. I mean even sometimes for us women its hard to control our bodies.
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just cause i guy gets boner doesn't always mean he's 'aroused' by you. bout 40% of the time it completely random and uncontrolable. the other 60% is when the guy is thinking, coming in contact or seeing sumthin sexual that he likes. so obviously the chances are he likes you, but there is still a good chance it happened at random. so i'm thinkin that he is kinda 'turned on' by you. hope i helped
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he might like you that or he was thinking of someone else......
it was most probably you, if you dont mind me asking what were u talking to him about because if you were talking about like sex stuff or whatever that might have been why
let me know ok
**toodles**
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Walk up and talk to him again. If it happens again, rip his pants off and stare.
If he runs away crying he likes you. If he sits in disbelief, he doesnt like you...AT ALL
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