hey every one i am reallii good in giveing advice so you can feel free to ask me about absolutly anyhting u want:)
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Member Since: May 13, 2005
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Last Update: May 16, 2005
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I have a tough situation but I don't think it is that big of a deal. My friend (Tl) didn't get to go to our schools formal dance. He was in the hospital with a asma attack. But his grandparents had bought him this suit to wear and everything. They said to make up for that, that they would take him out to eat to wherever he wanted as long as he took a girl with him. And he asked me if I would do him the favor and go as a friend. It isn't a date. Just a friendly dinner, with him, and his grandparents. The thing is, my boyfriend hates this kid. He doesn't want me talking to him at all. So I cut down on the talking to him and such. Should I go with my friend? I don't see what the big deal is. It isn't like we are going to do anything. And if I go, should I tell my boyfriend? He would freak. I mean it's just a innocent thing with a friend. But he would still flip because of the fact its Tl. Thanks. Good advice, good rating. (link)
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ok first you should sit your boyfriend down tell him u fell bad and want to go tell him it is just a innocent dinner nothing more then to friends dont go behind his back because if he finds out he will think it was more then just a friends thing. make sure your boyfriend trusts you and he knows you love him or w/e i am almost sure he might agree.
:)hope it helps
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i like lots of guys and i don't know why... i just thnk so many are hot!! ugh it sucks not knowing which one to choose!! please help
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to choose dont only think about how hot they are get to know them more like what their like and what kind of personality they have and then it will be much easyer too choose :) hope it helped
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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened? (link)
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ok since he never asked for your number or anything he isnt planning on seeing you again so for him it just a little fun so he led you on just forget him :) hope it helps
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ok, this is going to be really embarasing. here i go: school has all sorts of idiots. u can get rid of them by cussing, punching, guestures, tattletalling. there is this one kid who wont stop bothering me. it started when he would stare really hard at me in sex ed. than he started whipping his head to look at me when the teacher talked about kissing and sex. a few weeks ago, he touched my ass, and he tries to everyday in the hallway and health class. if anyone finds out i will be so embaresed. if bf finds out, ill go insane, if he finds out i told on him, im dead. i didnt mind him looking at me that much.....but touching, squeezing, pinching, running hand down my ass is too much. i hate him, and he never even said a word to me. i really need help getting rid of him, please help me! PS: i am 13 f. (link)
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ok this is considered sexsual harrasment it happend to me and my friend at school dont be embarrssed u didnt do anyhting you should go talk to a consulor at your school tell them whats been going on and they will take it from there no one will find out you can trust them the boys at my school got susspended for a week and are still not aloud to talk or even look at us so dont be embarresed :)hope it helps
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Okay, well I liked this boy who his parents are family friends and my dad and his dad go way back as kids. Well we were over his house one day and we ate there and all and we had a really good time.{it was back when we were in like 4th grade} Later he told his parents that he liked me for more than a friend and I didn't like him for more than a friend. Well, now we are in 6th grade and he still liked me and I started to like him more. He asked me to the first dance and all and then he asked to sit at my friends and I's table and we let him and he asked me out to all different dances at our school so we were kind of "boyfriend and girlfriend." Then I found out there is this other girl who likes him and she hates me because he doesn't like her. She called me names behind my back and stuff and he always said that she was annoying. Then he just stopped sitting with us at lunch for like three weeks. Then I found out he thought we broke up so he asked the other girl out. Now they have been going out for like three weeks. i still like him but he is taken. Should I wait for him to come around or just forget about it?
~Fellow Advincinator
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forget about him for sure he is just some imature lil kid lol get over him and find some one new :) hope it helps
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My boyfriend and I went out for six months, we were inseperable. Before that we had been best friends for little less then a year. We were so close, always with each other. He would always say to me "I love you. Someday we'll get married, we can be forever. Run away. Just you and me" he's romantic like that, but the I love you really stuck with me. Only a few weeks after he dumped me (He didn't even tell me why) He has a new girlfriend. His girlfriend always smiles at me when I walk by her in the halls, that bothers me so much. She's always giving me looks if I look at my ex. I like him so much, and I feel my heart drop to the ground whenever I see him! I've noticed though, he watches me. Whenever I walk by, or I'm talking with another guy- he's watching me. He says we can be friends, but he blocked me online and won't return my emails. I'm completely heartbroke and crushed,I just don't know what to do.
I'm 14 by the way
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honestly he really porbley was a liar there are a lot of guys out there like that i know alot of them. he just might be jelous that you talk to other guys maybe thats why he stares and if you really want to get over him the best thing is to stop all relations dont talk to him or i'm him or anyhting like that try and meet new people its going to take a while to get over him but hang in there it will happen :) hope it helps
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I met a guy at a club and i went up to him first and danced all nite w/him and he asked for my number first. An hour after the club he called me saying he still wanted to chill with me, but i said im pretty tired for the nite, so he said to call him later on the day. So i called him, and we chilled for a little at the beach. But soon after he had to go and said that he had run arrands with his friends and if me and my friends were still at the beach later on to call him, other wise he can always visit me in LA since he lives in SD and he visits LA ocassionally. Any way almost a week is up and he still hasnt called me but acouple of days ago i text him saying, hello and what he has been up to.. he text me back an hour later saying that sorry for not getting back, hes been busy but he'll call me later. Its been 2-3 days since that text and he still hasnt called back. I called him today but got his voicemail. so what should i expect or do? he isnt interested, just just let it go..?
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just let it go i dont think he is intrested so forget it he was just probley looking for a lil fun for a while :) hope it helps
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ok so this girls mom i know just died and my mom told me to go up to her and say something but im not sure what to say. someone please help me (link)
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just go up to her and hug her tell her everything will be ok if you have ever lost a loved one try and relate to her by knowing how she feels a lil bit :) hope it helps
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ok well, my friend, i really like him alot, but were like best friends, so i dont wanna mess that up. but anyway, last night i came home, and i wasnt at school yesterday. So i was online and he came on and usually i IM him first, and i was typing to him, but he IMed me first, and he was like... I MISSED YOU SO MUCH TODAY! and i was really surprised because i didnt think he would say that because i thought he was mad at me and i'd been thinking about it all day while i was away, and no matter what me and my friend were talking about his name always came out of my mouth. So anyway then we were talking and he was like, listen to this song i found today, and he made me listen to let me hold you by omarion and bowwow, and he was like, when i heard it i had to have you listen to it. And then i had to go and i was like, im gonna go, im dead tired. and he was like, go to bed, and that kinda surprised me because usually he's just like w/e bye. i know this sounds kinda gay, but does this mean anything? (link)
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yeah this does mean something he is trieing to let you know he likes you so you should let him know how you feel then next time you see him or i'm him tell him how you feel im sure he likes you too :) hope it helps
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I need to be inspired so that I can write better poems and stories. Maybe even making my life better by being more active, physically.
My question is: Do you know some place that I can go to be inspired? Or do you know any sayings that could maybe inspire me? (link)
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for me when i wnat to get inspired i go to my favriot spot ever under this one tree in the park just look around see whats happening and think of your life and whats going on with that secound and just start writteing once you start dont stop to make things better finish it first or your flow will get messed up :)hope it helps
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ok, im caught between to guys & im currently with one of them. theyre friends-not too close but i feel like im kinda comming between them.
the first guy, my bf...well we have some communication issues. meaning we rarely talk & when we do its not for very long. its our first relationship, were both shy at times & he doesnt get out much (unlike me) he hasnt kissed me ever or gone on a date with me in a long time.
the second guy...i got him together with his ex.(she dumped him b/c she was into girls.) we take martial arts together & were together alot then he said he likes me. we talk online all the time even if he said he likes me b/c honestly, im attracted. i cant really say i am b/c im with his friend. he says a lot of sweet things too and since i have doubts about the 1st guy, i cant help but take it in positavly.
well yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me after we talked for a really long time. its really weird cuz neither one of us agrees with cheating but for some reason, its almost impossible to avoid.
please help me! i dont wanna do anything stupid! thanks! (link)
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ok if you are not happy in your relationship with your boyfriend then end it you could be missing out on something much more positive so take a chance but if you are happy dont end it if your not looking for more just remain his girlfriend but if your going to saty togather dont kiss the other guy think of how you would feel if your boyfriend did it to you:) hope it helps
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I have got a friend, David, and I like him more than a friend. I reeeeally like him. ALOT. I was windering, how can I get him to like me too? Oh yeah and he said that he likes one of my friends but he doesnt act like it, it doesnt look like he likes her. Is there any signals on how I can find out if he likes me more than a friend? How can I get him to like me more than a friend? (link)
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he might be lieing about the friend thing and he might really like you if he looks into your eyes for a longer times or smiles at you for no reason thats a sign. just flirt with him and he will get it and if he flirts back thats good to
:) hope it helps
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I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex. (link)
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this is normal so dont worry about it its just all of thoses hormons rageing insid eof you anytime you feel like you are about to give in to sex just stop and think about all the bad things that could happen like std's or a pregnency
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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
*jEsS* (link)
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ok well a boner is a slang term that means a man's erection. When boys and men become sexually excited — by sexual thoughts, wet dreams, or sex play with themselves or another person — their penises fill with blood and get hard and erect. sorry for the details but you miight need to noe so he might have been attracted to you or he just got one for no reason :)hope it helps.
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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you should go by your wishes and wait or you will regret it. you should talk to him tell him how you feel about all of this and if he is still pressuring you then dump him if he is like that he isnt a good boyfriend anyways
:) hope it helps
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my friend told me she was raped by some guy at a party a few years back. i told her she should report it to the police but all she remembers was that he was black and tall (about the african-americain male population). and since it happen so long ago why say anything? no, she told me. and a few weeks ago she showed me that she cutting herself and stealing razors from some store. i feel like these are the kinda things you dont keep a secert about. what should i do? (link)
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you should tell an adult you trust what has been going on maybe she just needs some one to talk to so talk to her tell her what she is doing could hurt her and maybe have that trusted adult talk to her parents
:)hope it helps
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hey all this question is for everyone so you're all welcome to answer it my mom tells me to let my nails grow but i have this bad habit of biting them do you know of any i could stop biting my nails i'll rate high for good and reasonable answers. (link)
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to stop biting your nails just get them done like a manacure or petacure wut ever they are called or just get fake nails on so you cant bite them.
:)hope it helps
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Is taking your shoes of during a wedding okay? Me and my boyfriend were talking and we are going to his Aunts wedding tomarrow and hes like im taking my shoes off during the respection (ya know to dance and stuff) but is it okay? Past weddings as a kid i remember people going around in panty hoes and socks... Just wondering..
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yeah it is okay i always take my shoes off at weddings its easier to dance that way:)
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ok well i really like a friend of mine and today i told him i did ( online, because i didn't see him today ) and he didn't really respond .. all he said was " i heard you did from a friend " and then a few seconds later he told me he had to go eat dinner and signed off .. what does this mean ? how can i take care of feeling awkward around him ? what do i say ? thanks (link)
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okay sometimes guys just acte weird he miight still like you dont feel akward around him if he does not like you he probley wont care and if you want go up to him and say so what did you think of me likeing you and see where it goes from there hope it helps:)
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I always have nerds and other people who like me, and are sometimes obsessive. It really bothers me, because whenever I like someone, they don't like me. I'm afraid I will never find that one special guy. My parents are also extremely strict so I never have a place to meet new people except for the pool during the summer. HELP! (link)
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dont worry some day you will meet someone who likes you and u will like them back and since your parents are strict meet them afterschool and tell your parents your hanging out with a bunch of freinds hope it helps :)
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