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caught between 2 guys...
ok, im caught between to guys & im currently with one of them. theyre friends-not too close but i feel like im kinda comming between them.
the first guy, my bf...well we have some communication issues. meaning we rarely talk & when we do its not for very long. its our first relationship, were both shy at times & he doesnt get out much (unlike me) he hasnt kissed me ever or gone on a date with me in a long time.
the second guy...i got him together with his ex.(she dumped him b/c she was into girls.) we take martial arts together & were together alot then he said he likes me. we talk online all the time even if he said he likes me b/c honestly, im attracted. i cant really say i am b/c im with his friend. he says a lot of sweet things too and since i have doubts about the 1st guy, i cant help but take it in positavly.
well yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me after we talked for a really long time. its really weird cuz neither one of us agrees with cheating but for some reason, its almost impossible to avoid.
please help me! i dont wanna do anything stupid! thanks!
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To be brutally honest the only thing missing in the relationship with your boyfriend is the breakup. You don't talk or date...calling him your boyfriend is kinda silly. I think you just need to make the break up official.
Sounds like guy 2 would make a decent boyfriend. You already do things with him that you should be doing with the current bf and aren't (like talking!). I don't think it would be stupid to break up with current guy and date the second guy. Doesn't sound to me as if bf will be terribly upset since he doesn't make much effort in your relationship. :)
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I don't think people should be in a relationship that is going nowhere becuz that is just a waste of time. And why should the second guy's ex care? She is into girls now.
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hey! it sounds to me like you're not happy with your current bf. if you're in a relationship with someone and you think you might want to be with somebody else instead, clearly you're not as happy as you should be with your current bf. the thing is, even if you did work hard on getting him, well its not point staying with him even if it did take a lot of time and work. it sounds like this other guy really likes you and that theres a possibility that you might like him back. dont stay stuck with someone if the only excuse is that it took a while for you guys to go out together. i mean if you guys almost never talk and never go on dates, i think you should try being just friends. and as for the other guy, if you decide to be with him, take it slow. if you want to talk about this further, drop a message in my inbox. hope this helped. peace and love
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pick whichever makes you the happiest. <3
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Pick the one that makes you feel good. its ur relationship, not anyone elses.
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ok if you are not happy in your relationship with your boyfriend then end it you could be missing out on something much more positive so take a chance but if you are happy dont end it if your not looking for more just remain his girlfriend but if your going to saty togather dont kiss the other guy think of how you would feel if your boyfriend did it to you:) hope it helps
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Explain to your boyfriend that you see him more as a friend than a boyfriend. Tell him why you're not happy with them, like you told us. I think it would be a good idea to tell him about your feelings about your other friend, because it sounds he likes you a lot and you'd be happier with him. You should tell him about this other guy because it may be akward if you too end up together soon after the break-up and your current boyfriend may be more comfortable if he knows beforehand.
Good luck. I hope I was able to help.
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dump the first guy you are with. you are obviously not happy with him. let him know why you are dumping him. then tell the guy you like that you really like him and now your single. see what he does! and if he likes you as much as u say he does, then u should be together in no time!
Hope i helped,
Cierra
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