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Is he interested?
I met a guy at a club and i went up to him first and danced all nite w/him and he asked for my number first. An hour after the club he called me saying he still wanted to chill with me, but i said im pretty tired for the nite, so he said to call him later on the day. So i called him, and we chilled for a little at the beach. But soon after he had to go and said that he had run arrands with his friends and if me and my friends were still at the beach later on to call him, other wise he can always visit me in LA since he lives in SD and he visits LA ocassionally. Any way almost a week is up and he still hasnt called me but acouple of days ago i text him saying, hello and what he has been up to.. he text me back an hour later saying that sorry for not getting back, hes been busy but he'll call me later. Its been 2-3 days since that text and he still hasnt called back. I called him today but got his voicemail. so what should i expect or do? he isnt interested, just just let it go..?
-confused need advice
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hey! well, i couldnt really say. but my advice to you is to not expect anything from him and let it go, but if he comes back, well, i'm guessing you can pick from there. but dont wait around for something to happen, cause it might never. so let it go, maybe he just wanted a little fun, and maybe he didnt. he'll get back to you if there is more to it. if you have more questions drop a message in my inbox, peace and love
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just let it go i dont think he is intrested so forget it he was just probley looking for a lil fun for a while :) hope it helps
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he might be busy! either that or somethings messed up with his phone, or just being a stubborn male...
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It could be that he's just being male and annoying and it has slipped his mind but he's still into you! However you don't want to sound clingy as he'll quickly lose interest so i'd leave it for perhaps a week and see if anything happens. Then after a week send him a text asking if he is interested in meeting up again at some point or whether he'd prefer just to drop it as you were wondering if he was still interested! Its blunt and to the point but atleast it'll get the message across. Also if he is still interested it'll worry him into doing something about it as you're basically saying that you're going to stop contacting him if he doesn't reply. (which by the way is what i suggest you do if he doesn't reply!!) good luck
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one more day,then text him if he dose not answer her probably is too busy. But he could be busy doing things with other girls :( sorry but i think you should let him go. Befor he lets YOU go.
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Hey confused, I would say that if you really lke this guy and think about him much, and think that he has potential, then I say you text/call/leave a message telling him how you feel and/or ask him if he is interested in you. Don't leave yourself hanging like that. If he doesn't get back to you then drop him, but like I said, ask him first. Good luck.
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yeah i think this guy is jsut a waste of time find another. and if he does text you then ignore him becuase thats what he was being doing to you. you deserve better!
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I think you should send hima text telling him if he isn't interested to just say so. Find out for sure and get it over with. He could just be a busy guy...maybe TO BUSY? :)
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Hey! i would wait it out another couple of days and if he still doesn't answer in text or by phone, try to meet up with him and then let it go. Girls shouldn't have to wait around for a boy!
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