ok, this is going to be really embarasing. here i go: school has all sorts of idiots. u can get rid of them by cussing, punching, guestures, tattletalling. there is this one kid who wont stop bothering me. it started when he would stare really hard at me in sex ed. than he started whipping his head to look at me when the teacher talked about kissing and sex. a few weeks ago, he touched my ass, and he tries to everyday in the hallway and health class. if anyone finds out i will be so embaresed. if bf finds out, ill go insane, if he finds out i told on him, im dead. i didnt mind him looking at me that much.....but touching, squeezing, pinching, running hand down my ass is too much. i hate him, and he never even said a word to me. i really need help getting rid of him, please help me! PS: i am 13 f.
Additional info, added Sunday May 15 2005, 3:48 pm: i am really embaresed to look at him, so i cant tell him to stop. my bf doesny go to my school, so he cant do anything about it, and im scared to tell him.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CaNtToUcHtHiS answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 8:16 pm: that would be considered sexual harassment, you need to tell someone you really trust. once you tell them and he gets in trouble, itll be so much easier for you... its nothing to be embarassed about.
about your boyfriend. depending on how close you are to him should determine if u tell him or not. if you arnt that close then you dont really have to tell him whats goin on with that perve in ur school. but if you are close to him then you should tell him. close guy friends can help out a lot... more than they get credit for.
hope things get better for you.
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VanityScore answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:25 pm: I would beat up the little creep. Though that may not be the best answer... I would feel more in control. The right thing to do, though, would be to rat him out to a guidance counselor, and ask to remain anonymous. They'll most likely suspend him, and if he tries it again, he could be expelled.
I don't know why everyone thinks it's so embarassing to tell someone that a guy is doing something that's wrong to you. It's not like everyone's going to shun you. It's not like you led him on. He, among many other men, deserve to be punished. So punish him!! [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
berryhappii answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:21 pm: ok this is considered sexsual harrasment it happend to me and my friend at school dont be embarrssed u didnt do anyhting you should go talk to a consulor at your school tell them whats been going on and they will take it from there no one will find out you can trust them the boys at my school got susspended for a week and are still not aloud to talk or even look at us so dont be embarresed :)hope it helps [ berryhappii's advice column | Ask berryhappii A Question ]
pinkxice143 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 3:56 pm: Go to like a gudience coounseler talk to her tell her you feal reallyy uncomfertable and it needs to stop now
karenR answered Sunday May 15 2005, 3:14 pm: If telling him doesn't get rid of him, tell the teacher. He/she will make him stop. You don't have to put up with inappropriate touching from anyone. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday May 15 2005, 2:18 pm: He seems really annoying. Tell your boyfriend!! If anyone sees him doing that to you people will probablly start saying you cheated on your boyfriend and he might not belive you didnt. So tell him before anyone else does. Tell that guy to leave you alone! When he trys to grab you slap his hand and just yell at him and say no! If you dont say anything to him or anyone he will never stop doing it. Try not to be around him much. If he doesnt stop after you told him to you really need to tell a teacher or someone. Its kind of sexual harrasment if you he keeps on doing it. Its not like you're a snich or anything but you have a boyfriend and he should be the only one touching you! X0` [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
2cute102 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 12:46 pm: First, tell a teacher in private and ask them to keep your name a secret. Eventually he will find out it was you who told but no need to worry, make sure u tell the teacher what he might do and they can keep a close watch on him. Tell your parents if you have the need to.
Hope this helps! [ 2cute102's advice column | Ask 2cute102 A Question ]
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