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well, theres this kid i know and a lot of people make fun of him, but im not friends with him and i dont stick up for him (buti def. dont include myself in the making-fun) but yeah so this kid tries to laugh with the kids so that he dosent seem weak or soemthing so he just goes along with their making-fun and idk ..you can definately tell that he isnt happy about it..i can see it in his eyes.. he has lots of cuts on his arm..and i think he cuts, and even though i dont like the kid myself, i dont know what to do because i definately feel bad for him so im not sure what to do...any advice will help thanks =] (link)
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ummm stand up for him. teasing is silly and is just a way to feel bigger. say hey lets try to be nice r change the subject. say hi to him and klet him know that you are worried about him. don't be such a lemming
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I live in baltimore and im mostly jealous of half of the girls at my school. Most of them dress better then me, look better then me, get my boys then I do, and all around have a better life then me. People always tease me about not looking right...or not dressing GOOD ENOUGH for their like. I tried killing myself...it didnt work, i just feel unloved and unwanted. Sometimes i wished i could just be them...and live the live they live there just perfect as hell! I started prosituting to feel wanted by boys...and for a while it was good and after some time after people starting finding out and calling me a hoe I guess i found out what's wrong with it. But, still now i love attention from anyone and i love making people laugh. and i HATE everything about myself...i feel ugly. I never feel pretty and people always tell me im ugly or what's wrong with me and i always think about it and then it sticks to me...and i hate myself more and more. People tell me dont care what people say but its hard, when your in my shoes. Everyone is just living this good life...and noone understands how i feel...and the boy that i like the most wont go with me but he would go with this other girl. (I guess she's better then me too.) Please someone help me! I dont want to feel this way anymore. (link)
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please calm down, suicide and prostitution are not the answers.
Do not ever let others get to you, i know it is ghard, i do, but you have to be your own advocate. If you want others to stand up for you, you must first stand up for yourself.
What about the theatre if you like attention and entertaining? theatre kids are usually super nice and open so long as you are nice to them. It is a way to kind of get out of your skin for a while and take on another's persona, to be better, to be worse, to be sexy, or to be crazy. check the theatre out!
As far as clothing goes: don't worry about it! and if you can't help it, check out the sale rack at GAP (they change their clothes all of the time so there is cute recent stuff for cheap all of the time!) Or sotres like wet seal and old navy are relatively inexpensive but fashonable at the same time.
what will killing yourself proove? how can you change who you are and how you are engraved in the mind of the world if you end your life early? If none of this works, is there any way that you could transfer before you get to highschool so that you could strat out fresh?
I am here if you need any help. please reconsider your fate because i guarentee that it will all be okay. MAy i reccomend reading "The Perks of Being A Wallflower"? it is a life changing book. just remember these things:
"NEVER let ANYONE make you feel inferior without your consent" -Eleanor Roosevelt
"If you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm" -Audry Hepburn
"I have had dreams and I have had nightmares, but i have conquered my nightmares because of my dreams" -Jonas Salk
"What les behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters comapred to what lies within us" -Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Destiny is not a matter of chance; it's a mtter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved." -William Jennings Bryan
"We are made to persist. That's how we find out who we are." Tobias wolfe
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the last few days ive been eating a lot, i never feel hungry.about 2 days ago i weighed myself, then i weighed myself today,and i had lost a pound.i havent excersied at all and ive been eating A LOT.why am i losing weight from eating so much junk food, and is it a good thing? (link)
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muscle weighs more than fat. so you are losing muscle mass and replacing it with a lighter substace that takes up more space. try taking better care of yourself becuas e there are girls who weigh very little but look pudgy and have clogged arteries.
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So, a bit of a random question here, but why do guys have nipples? :) lol, just something I've always wondered. Thanks! (link)
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the book "Why Is Sex Fun: The Evolution of Human Sexuality" by Jared Diamond is a great source for the answers to those why do buys have this and girls have this questions, it is only about 100 pages and is very interesting.
good luck
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I am currently 8 months pregnant and the last 2 months i have been addicted to sniffing Tipp Ex and marker Pens, could this have caused any harm to my unborn baby? (link)
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God HATES you...and I'm not even religious. you will have to pay for that the rest of your freaking life and so will your baby if it is stilla live. god don't screw up other people's lives. if you want to fuck up your own go ahead, you'll end up in a gutter somewhere and no one will give shit, but messing up an innocent baby's because you are too selfish and too addicted to drugs?
WAY TO GO
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There's this huge show next month at school, and I volunteered to sing Carrie Underwood's "Jesus Take the Wheel". I know I can do it, I'm already halfway there perfecting it, but I need some tips. Can anyone who knows much about this subject give me great tips? Mostly including tone, airflow, and lots of vibrato? Thanks in advance.
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hey dearie! first off: break a leg!
now, try not to over exert yourself until the performances. don't drink or eat anything chocolate or with dairy in it. sugary things are bad as well. basicly, stick to water for a couple of hours before. after(or the days before), if your throat hurts take a spoonful of honey and eat it raw or put it in tea (another couple of things to avoid the day of your performance)
to loosen your palatte and tounge before, stick your thumb onto your palatte or under your chin while warming up. open your mouth while singin for better sound and tone.
xoxo
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My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.
If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.
I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin? (link)
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according to 99.999% of the highschool sex ed teachers out there, you are no longer a virgin if you have oral, anal, or just regular intercourse.
xoxo
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ok the thought of a guys thing going into your thing kinda gets me freaked out cause it sounds like it hurts and is painful i mean really.. so what does it really feel like.. does it hurt? (link)
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virgins can too use tampons to whoever said that. the first time is no fun, but it gets better. If it freaks you out it means that you are
A) not comfortable enough with your spouse
or
B) far too young to understand
good luck sweetie! take your time, there is no race to have sex
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what is the youngest that you, or anyone you know has had sex? im scared my sister in 6th grade is sexual active, and so i was wondering if thats normal? thanks (link)
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It is'nt normal at all. plus if she gets pregnant and she is a small girl she could DIE in childbirth.
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