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a boy im not really friends with


Question Posted Monday May 22 2006, 3:42 pm

well, theres this kid i know and a lot of people make fun of him, but im not friends with him and i dont stick up for him (buti def. dont include myself in the making-fun) but yeah so this kid tries to laugh with the kids so that he dosent seem weak or soemthing so he just goes along with their making-fun and idk ..you can definately tell that he isnt happy about it..i can see it in his eyes.. he has lots of cuts on his arm..and i think he cuts, and even though i dont like the kid myself, i dont know what to do because i definately feel bad for him so im not sure what to do...any advice will help thanks =]

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Tulipg17 answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 12:03 pm:
This is quite simple, when you see people making fun of him then say something, take a stand! If you don't, you really aren't any different from the other kids because you are letting it happen. Are you afraid they'll turn on you next? I think it's terrible that anyone could stand around watching someone get victimized by others and not do anything to stop it, almost as terrible the actions of those making fun of him. I don't mean to make you out to be the bad guy, but you need to do all that you can. Befriend this kid, be someone he can count on and talk too.

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BlackBatman answered Monday May 22 2006, 5:49 pm:
Well, the obvious thing would be to stand up for him. Then maybe there would be no, or one less cut on his arm. And even though you don't like him. You could still try talking to him. Dosen't have to be a conversation. Trust and believe me. Just a simple "Hi" Everyday can go a long way

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life_isnt_fair answered Monday May 22 2006, 4:58 pm:
ummm stand up for him. teasing is silly and is just a way to feel bigger. say hey lets try to be nice r change the subject. say hi to him and klet him know that you are worried about him. don't be such a lemming

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Monday May 22 2006, 4:23 pm:
hey, well there isnt much that you can do for these types fo people. just offer your help and say like oh if you ever need anything im here for youu. cait♥

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