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who 2 believe
ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do...
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you should definetly believe chris, or whoever told you what jake or john was doing, now its not totally true, like its not definete i mean, but it john or jake isnt telling you thats alittle suspicious i mean come on, so i think you should believe chris, he said he didnt want to hurt you, he wouldnt lie from what it seems, and john or jake seems like it, so follow your heart, but my advice would be to like further find out more about the situation, before making your final decision,hope i helped, ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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ask him were he gose if he dose not tell you
then tell him if he realy loves u he will tell u
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BELIEVE NONE OF THEM! dump u're boy and don't do anything about his friend. THEY BOTH AREN'T WORTH IT! Just wondering do you go to iceland irmo?
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I'm afraid at 13 John is just kind of outgrowing you. No offense intended but 16 year old guys are just that way.
Since John has basically been using you, it would be wise to find yourself someone else to hang out with. I don't know how old Chris is but, I think you would be least likely to get hurt finding someone closer to your age. :)
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ahh!! this is a mess!ok,break up with john,if he wasnt @ the rink i think he would have invited you to the mall! then,i think you should find this girl and tell her about what he did to you! then he'll have no one because hes loser! and for chris,if you like him,you should hook up,because he was truth ful.If Chris was lying,and you broke up with John,then tell john what chris said.In my opinion it looks like chris is tell the truth :) i hope i helped
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this is harsh of john, he sounds like a player if he isn't telling you, hes juggling between girls!! you should just chuck him and then he only (hopefully) has one girl! if you wanna get revenge then you could find out who the other girl is and tell her that about you!! as for this other guy (chris?) he seems nice.. do you like him?? if so why not hook up with him, if your looking for someone else that is!! Good Luck!!
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hu's jake? i thort john was you boyfriend but then you bring jake into it too?? huh??
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if hes seeing another gurl then dump him
luv nicki xxx ♥
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You have a good point that chris might like you, so he might be lying, but you have to take his warning seriously. Do you really want to be with someone who is seeing another girl? I think you should dump John, still talk to Chris, but be careful and don't beleive everything you hear. If he admits he was lying, then tell your boyfriend what happened.
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well thats hard because maybe he does like you... because when a guy likes you they ussally try anything to get the gurl.. i think you should have a seri. talk with your boyfriend because thats something really importan and you dont want to get hurt even more that you are now!
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OK i know jumping to conclusions isnt good..and yes its a possibility hes jusy lying to you because the friend likes you..but saying "maybe i'll go to the rink if im not at the mall?" NO no..thats not cool..he should either give you a "yes, i'll be there" or "no,sorry im going to the mall." he shouldnt just play you off like that..so definately talk to him about that.
To find out if this other girl story is true..maybe talk to a girl that goes with your friend to the mall..ask her to please tell you if theres another girl..and being that shes a girl..i think she'll stick by you and tell you.
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Well, its possible that this guy does like you and is telling this to you to get you to break up with your boyfriend, so be careful when you decide whether you believe him or not. For the fact of your boyfriend, ask him about it. You'll be able to tell if he is being honest with you. He won't be able to look you in the eye when he replies to you.
Hope everything works out!
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Who knows if John is telling the truth or not, but do you really need to know?? Don't you have enough reasons in front of you to dump this looser??
Hunny, if he is really into you he would spend anytime he had with you. He goes to a different school ... think about it ... how often does he see his "friends?" Ok ... now how often does he see you?? Hopefully you can understand what I'm trying to point out to you. He isn't worth your time especially at your age. You should be going out and having a good time. Not sitting at home wondering when mr.wonderful is going to make some time for you! I think you know what to do!
Best of luck!
~ Amanda ;)
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