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i'm still in love !
I started going out with this kid Brendan last February and then in July we broke up. It was the best five months of my life! I know it wasn't that long but he's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm still madly in love with him I just noticed. I knew I liked him still but when ever someone even says his name around me my heart will start going crazy! If I look at him in the halls I wanna just go talk to him and I've tried but I get scared and just talk to his friends and see if he'll notice me. I know it's kind of childish but I can't help it! He's just always there. I've gone out with two people since we broke up. Nothing serious at all. Just like one month things. My friends think the only reason reason I went out with them was because I just missed having someone I really liked around me and I think their right. Even though I didn't like them that much. I did kind of use them but I just really miss him. I don't know how to tell him this or even if I should tell him. As I'm writing this my friend called saying she just saw Brendan at the store and I just started smiling and my heart beating just hearing his name. It's so weird I've never felt like this even with the guy I was going out with for two years. His name is Gilmore (it's really his last name) After that we went out, off and on, off and on for like another five months. My best friend Lucas who is friends with Brendan said that maybe he doesn't wanna pull "a ilmore" It's basically a legend. Everyone says that when they don't wanna go with the same person about a million times. So maybe it is that but I have no clue. What do you think I should do because I'm gonna go crazy pretty soon. Oh ya I'm 16 years old and he's 17. IM TURNING 17 NEXT MONTH! (can't wait)
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omg I have had the exact same thing happen to me. Even though this may sound hard, give it some time. make sure youd ont keep telling this guy you love him, he will get annoyed. I gave it time and guess what happened, it allw orked out as planned...he is back in my life and I couldnt be happier...so what i say to you..im still in love is that if you guys were meant to be, you will be.hope i helped. ask me for advice anytime.
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Ok, you're not crazy!! And it's not that you don't have a clue. I think that it's reasonable for you to still like him. It's not childish for you to be shy around him, even if it's just walking up to him and saying "Hi". Get Brendan's e-mail address or AIM screen name. If you get his e-mail, send him an email that tells him that you still have feelings for him, that you thought that the months that ya'll went out were the best in your whole life. Tell him that you've never felt this way about anyone before. Try to hang out with him. Get up your courage and one day, when you're passing him in the hall, smile, and say, "Hey!" and continue on your way. Get your friends to help you hang out with him more. Your friend, Lucas, get him to hang out with you and Brendan at the same time. Start off as friends and work off of that. If Brendan still has feelings for you, that's when it would show. Try and be calm, cool, and collected. But don't overdo it! lol Talk to God about how you feel about Brendan, Christ will help you through all times. Oh, happy early birthday!!
-FunnyCide
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The same thing happend to me and my ex b.f gani, I would date other guys that i didnt really like to try and get over him but then I found my baby Dennis he is always here for me.... So i guess what I am trying to say is, it's going to be tuff trying to get over him, look around eventually you will find the right one, it took me 3 months... but it you dont want to get over him then tell him how you fell say Brendan i dont know how you feel about me, but i know i still have feelings for you, you werent just another b.f you meant alot to me, i always want to talk to you when i see you in school but i just think your not going to avoid me or maybe just treat me like another girl, but if you want to be friends thats fine with me i just needed to let you know that i still care for you. You never know he might feel the same way about you too. I hope i helped let me know how it all goes email or i.m me at "xOx Babii Dee xO" -Diona*
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