ok i got this friend and i thought he rly liked me and or so he says and then like so i would you kno kiss him and things like that and we were supposed to have sex this weekend i was supposed to lose my virginity to him but now this moring i found out at the high school hes sayin all kinda of rumors about me and how he can get anything from me.. so my question is how do i ask him about this?
*~Brittany~* answered Friday March 18 2005, 1:01 am: ok what i think you need to do is first confront him about it but in front of alot of ppl so you have witnesses who can say he said or whatever just be like why are you saying this crap about me ans then dump his ass but first have a guy that wants to be with you waiting for you so you can make the other guy super jealous.......... [ *~Brittany~*'s advice column | Ask *~Brittany~* A Question ]
Kels answered Friday January 28 2005, 6:25 pm: only be with a guy you trust, and who is true to you and doesnt talk about you. and remember you should be able to stay with somenoe with out doing thigns.
Its possible-dont worry! I know- Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year*(it will be a year in 4days) and we sorta did stuff-then stoped because it wasnt right and so we havent done anything in months! and its been great! and were happier, and we know that we can still love eahother and be together without doing things.
just make sure that whatever you choose to do is right.
x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Friday January 28 2005, 5:57 pm: First of all, you don't just go and lose your virginity to someone you "like". Wait until your married and spend that special moment with your husband. 2nd of all, who cares about him? If he's spreading rumors about you, then you shouldn't even want to be with him. Hope I helped!
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angieroonie answered Thursday January 27 2005, 8:40 pm: just say you're not ready for sex. if he stays with you anyway then you know he likes you but if he ditches you, be happy that you didn't sleep with him because it would be a mistake. [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
pretty_n_punk09 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 7:46 pm: Ask him? Honey, this boy is obviously a asshole and you need to find someone sooo much better. Most guys will spread rumors about you after you've had sex and if you tell them you want to have it on a certain day, they will probably spread lies about you then. But are you going out? This guy is a serious playa, hon. Go find yourself a real man.
lildiamyn_69 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 7:37 pm: well, don't wanna sound rude or anything, but... do you really even wanna talk to him anymore? But if you must, go up to him(not in front of his friends)and ask him. Be flat out with him.
Don't do it over the phone, because he may hang up on you. But don't let yourself be played. Hope I helped some. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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