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guy troublez
14/f Hey well there is this one guy who i serioulsy really really really like...everyone knows I like him... even his friends most likely...well the problem is I have liked him for a really long time...and alot of ppl want me to get over him... but I dont know how... i tried looking at other guys but for some reason when i start to like another guy I suddenly stop and go back to likeing him...i have never gone out with him which really sucks cause i really want too... ok well we dont talk that much at school but we talk on the phone...ok usaully when i talk to him we talk for at least a half hour at least unless he has to go... well the other day i called him and i think he was being kinda rude...(i havent told anyone especially my best friends cause they dont really like him and if isay something that will just make me sad cause they will say good get over him and i dont wanna cry...cause that will make me cry...)ok back to where i was he said something that hecka made me sad...so i like hung up the phone and like started crying.... i wanna talk to him again but i cant tell him that he made me cry... cause i dont think he has realized how much i do really like him... also i know he doesnt like me cause i know who he does like and know that he wants to go out with her..(she has everything i want)ok so heres another thing i havent called him since then and yea its just been like 5 days and i dont know if i should even talk to him anymore on the phone cause he makes me hecka sad what should i do???
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Sounds like your friends are right.. not to be rude but your not gettin anywhere with this guy.. nothing has happened with you and him except talk on the phone and you dont even talk bout hookn up.. sounds like he is a waste of your time hun.. i can understand he's a crush and ya like him alot but try to hook up wit somebody so you can try to move on..hope i helped rate me..~*DEZ*~
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Your friends are probably right in this case. I know you do not want to hear move on but it would be the best thing, try and get a b.f. A b.f might not be what you want and you still might like this other guy but give someone else a chance they might end up being the love of your life. A relashionship takes to things to work,
1. Love for eacother
2. Respect.
After what he said to you on the phone you shouldnt have respect for him, so try your hardest to move. Or better yet dont worry so much about boys you have your whole life just hang out with your friends, your still young have fun and dont get your heart broken!
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Cool down, think about your situation. Accept the fact that you probably won't ever be with him, that's the first step. Then you should think about other things, don't make your world revolve around him. Hang out with other friends, your friends just want what's best for you. Instead of talking to him, talk to your friends. You should still talk to him, of course, but as a friend. Then you won't be so sad.
-Farren
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i feel the same exact way about a guy too
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