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helping a friend
ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx
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I understand you have talked to her about this but mabe you need to sit her down and really talk to her about it.. if she doesnt listen to you and still does all of this stuff you will have to go to an adult abotu this. hope i helped
* Michelle
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Well, I know you have talked to her.. but you need to sit her down and say "I'm worried about you, and your future. You are going to look back on these choices and truly regret them." If she still won't listen, then maybe you need to speak to a trusted adult, because the problem is way out of your league.
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i have a friend just like that. all i do is tell her it wrong and i just talk to her when she is bust talking to her boyfriend. I dont care what she says i tell her and she gets mad at me. that is her fault if she is gonna ruin her life like that, but as a friend it is a great thing to talk to your friend and tell her its not right! Hope i Helped ya xOx <3 Ashley
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Well alot of people do it.. and glad to hear your a real friend and worried bout her.. well you cant do much bout this except be there for her.. or you could tell her parents but you probably dont wanna do that..tried my best on it..~*DEZ*~
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Hi ok start by sitting her down when she is not high or drunk. and if shes having sex with all kinds of people then tell her where it could get her tell her what the weed and drugs and the beer could do to her. And tell her that your worried about her and you really wanna help her and just stay calm
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There isn't anything you can do. The most you can do is voice your opinion and its her choice from there...good luck~
- Zero
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Nothing you can do, sorry hun. I mean, you could tell her parents, but that's not nice and she'd probably hate you for it. She's 15, she has to make her own mistakes.
-Farren
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It's amazing how shallow "advisors" can be! Kudos to you for being worried about your friend. There is a place called Teen Help or World Wide Association Specialty Programs. It is especially for teens who are making what they call "nonworking choices" in their lives, mostly drugs, alcohol and sex. Talk with school counselors or her parents about this -- you can get on Internet for more information about it or you can contact me at shelbyjunebug072@yahoo.com. It sounds as though your friend is screaming/crying for help and, in the long run, she will be thrilled that she has such a friend as you. This is a program specifically for teens like your friend and, while it is not cheap, it is life-saving. Please keep in touch. I as a parent and a number of my friends have been through this.
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I don't get whats wrong.
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Yeah my best friend turned to that stuff. She was depressed and needed help. maybe same goes for your friend. Just a guess though. I went with my friend to the consoular and we both talked about it and she was sent for awhile and is doing not half bad right now. Gots to pick up after being gone but she is doing alright. Maybe you should go to the consoular for this. And no she wont get in trouble with the police well not that i know of because they have to keep it confidential and our consoular did that with us and didnt say a peep-trixxi
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