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14 & 19
Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you?
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! i mean i have that same situation i mean most of my friends are 16-20 and im only 13 buteveryone says i act way mature 4 my age and my boyfriend is 17 and yea. next year it will be illegal but it doesnt matter 2 me. besides i heard that if ur parent(s) or guardian is okay with it then noones doing aoything wrong and my ma approves of myboyfriend 100%
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To answer your question, no. You could love someone 20 years older than you. However, it is illegal. And you will get caught sooner or later. Expecially if you're having sex with him. That is considered statitory rape if your parents press charges. And it doesn't matter how old you look or act, you still have the hormones of a teenager. Beleive me in this: I have the same beginning. Developed early, mature for age. I'm 15. And I'm still telling you that if you two get caught, he will go to jail for something like 2 years. My friend was fooling around with a guy that was 18, and she's 16, they git caught. Now he's in jail for 5 years with a chance of probation. If he really does like you, he can wait for a couple of years. Don't do anything illegal. Illegal=stupid. DO. NOT. GO. OUT. WITH. HIM.
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its not wrong to be in love. the fact is you are 14 and he is 19. No matter how old you look, or act you are what you are, you know? And many 19 year guys have been with at least 1-2 girls (probably more) so there might be a chance that he likes you maybe because you're young and innocent (maybe?)
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Honestly. I don't think there is anything wrong with being inlove with someone who is 5 years older, when you are 20. Right now, you are 14 and he is 19. Think about it. This guy has been with so many girls. He is older and smarter obviously. He knows how to play his game. The reason why in my opinion he is going after you is because he knows he can take advantage of you. Because you are still very young. You will end up getting hurt if you go with this guy. I'm just being true and honest with you. How would anyone find out?..well...you would probably feel like shit after anything happened between you guys, and then you would tell someone, or go to someone for support, then that is how someone or even more would find out. I'm only telling you this because this guy is too old for you right now. Forget about him.
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It is not wrong technically to be in love with someone five years older than you. As for your ages, I honestly believe 14 and 19 is kind of rocking the cradle. But it is your decision if you want to be with him. He can get in trouble, if he has sex with you with out your consensus b/c then it is considered rape and you are a minor. People will find out if you tell them, if you don't say anything then no will know. But honestly, I know you may look like you aren't 14, but seriously, don't just jump into something with a 19 year old, your young, and that isn't a bad thing, you should really enjoy with the body God has given to you, with out taking it for granted. All I'm saying is, to please make an appropiate decision, about whatever you decide to do with this guy.
Okay, sorry if I sounded like a mom, I just don't want you to get in over your head and get hurt.
Good luck :)
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