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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared.
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well this is a conversation that you probally should have with your parents or with your doctor, ask them about this stuff they are there to help, im sure they would much rather that you ask them then any frined or some one that does not know to much about this stuff
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sweetie, at 13 you have NO obligation to think about oral sex at all. at 13 i had never even kissed a boy. so, if you find thinking about 69 and oral sex uncomfortable, then don't think about it! you don't need to do it until you're ready, and if for some reason a boy breaks up with you because you won't give him oral or have sex with him, well then he's not worth your time. please dont' feel pressured to think about any of that if you're not ready. i hope this helped
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If you aren't gonna do head or let a guy eat you out, then there is no reason to be scared. So don't be scared, because there is nothing to be afraid of.
*Randy T*
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lol..well im 13 nd idc lol i mean i dont wanna go arund doin that w. ppl but lol
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hey hun. well, oral sex isn't a requirement. and 69ing is in the oral sex category. Anyways, you don't have to ever do it. But when I was your age I was scared of it too, and thought it would be gross. You may grow out of it like i did. But hey, don't be scared, because you don't have to do it, and whoever your future partner may be, tell them that.
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First of all, sex is intensely personal. Everyone has things they like and don't like. When you get older, if you still feel the same - you're okay. You're normal.
Be open and upfront with your partner, but also be willing to trust someone and let them trust you.
If you're not having sex until much later, then I would try to relax. Your views might change, and if they don't you'll have gained confidence over the years to stand up for yourself.
You'll be fine. I promise.
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um, what's the question?
it's just a matter of personal choice whether or not to do oral, there's nothing wrong with you, so don't worry so much. and definitely don't be scared. it's not something you need to worry about, like you said. you may decide one day that you'd like to try, but don't ever do anything you don't want to do.
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if you are not comfortable with that sutf..right now..don't do it. it is your body..and you are the one that makes the calls. Do not let anybody pressure you inot something that is not ok wiht you. A guy will understand if he is the right one.
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Well... If you're scared just don't do it. everyone's scared of sex before you do and as you grow older, you'll be more ready... and you wont be as scared...
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if your gonna wait till your married why are you worried about it now? i'm sure you'll change your mind by then
hope i helped
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ur onlii 13 bitch.
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You don't have to be so scrared about anything because just tell boiifriend/husband if you dont feel comforable doing it just tell him he should understand. Its up to you and yuor boiifriend/husband because no one should force you to do it if they do then you are not in a good relction ship with that person. Don't do anyhting that you don't feel comfrtable doing.
hope we helped :),
..::..sunny411..::..
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You dont have to do it if you dont want to. Just tell your husband/boyfriend that and he should be ok with it! You dont have to do anything you dont feel comfortable doing
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