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My best friend is dating this guy that ive had a crush on for weeks now. I dont know what to do. When they go out i always have to go with them so their parents dont think they are doing bas things(which they are) and it kills me to watch them, what should i do??? Im so confused.
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Oh honey! I'm sorry this has happened to you.. Have you told your best friend how you feel? Does she know that you've been crushing on this guy? They should NOT be relying on you to cover their asses in front of their parents. You seem like a very loyal friend to do this; but if it's hurting you, say no. Tell your friend the truth; be open and honest about it. If she goes off on one at you, she's stupid. Other than that, this is one hell of a tricky problem to get out of. If they're together, and happy together, try and focus your energy into something you want to do; do some stuff with your other friends and find a different guy. There's not much else you can do but try and move back and away from this; it'll hurt for a while, but the feelings for this guy will go away. If you're not honest with your friend and keep hanging out with them when it's hurting you, she's not going to know that anything is wrong.
Good luck x
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Well I have the same exact problem. You are just gonna have to learn how to deal with it! Or you can tell your friend how you feel. Y=Thats what I did and it worked! Tell them that its nasty and they need to do it when there alone! Let me guess the sucking faces is a major problem? I hope thatss what your talking about b/c if your talking about sex........
You really shouldnt be there for that!
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Just say i dont like to watch what you guys are doing it sorta grosses me out.. try to find someone else to go with you guys next time.. and try to keep your mind off him. sorry -trix
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well i think u should tell your friend dat u care for this guy an maybe she will understand an like back off when your with them.. or u should tell her parents.. like so they have to go with her... but tell tha parents dat u really wana be her friend so just dont let them say n e thing to her!...
xOo Shellyz oOx
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You need to get yourself out of the middle of their relationship. Stop being their chaperon. It is no fun being the third wheel. Or bring along a guy for yourself and make it a double date, rather than a babysitting job. You'll get over the guy.
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Girl, you need to tell them what you just wrote cause she's your best friend and should know that y our uncomfortable around her and this guy together. Hope this helps.
Elle
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