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What do I do?
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and I love her so much and I know she loves me she says it all the time and stuff but I dont know if she is always happy with my I cant really tell her how I want her to feel or anything or talk to her about this there has to be something I can do to show her I want her to be happy basically happier then she has ever been before like can you tell me how I can do this because that would be a big help anyone help me one this subject I just want my girlfriend to be super happy around me and not like faking the whole happiness thing so please help me with what to do thanks a bunch.
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No one likes hearing this, but you can't make someone love you and you can't let another person be a source for your own happiness. If she is your girlfriend and seems to return your feelings, (although it sounds like it is not the level you would like it to be) then find new things to do together. Sometimes, a relationship can get in a rut or become too predictable if you don't freshen it up. Do something that is out of character and surprise her. It doesn't have to cost money. Be creative! Go to a local park and have a picnic and bring a radio. Go on a walk through the park or local outdoor area. Go through a photo album of yours or hers and learn something new about one another. This could uncover new feelings.
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If you want my honest opinion, I think maybe you should stop worrying about this. She wouldn't be dating you if she didn't have feelings for you, and she wouldn't tell you she loves you all the time if she didn't. You need to stop worrying about it because if you're always anxious as to how she's feeling, she'll notice you acting weird and think something's wrong, or else you will stop being happy in the relationship. Either way, it's not healthy to always be worried about every little thing that happens in the relationship. Be happy with what you have. You say you know she loves you, isn't that enough?
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Call and make shure shes home tell her your coming to get her house and to get dressed up fancy ( give her at least 2-3 hours advance notice) buy her flowers dress up nicely go over there pick her up go out to a nice dinner pay for everything bring her home and kiss her gently at her door step and leave it will be romanticly refreshing hope i could help!
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one night when the guys want to hang out, Instead of hang out with your friends take her someplace special to show her you would do anything for her.
Elle
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