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friends? I have been friends with this guy for 6 years ever since i was 9 as we got older things started to change i started to like him for more than a friend. he is the guy that when i see him i always feel better i haved some major medical problems and afterwards he always cheers me up but latly he hasen't been comming to his moms house that much so i don't get to see him but once a month i don't know what to do?
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There's nothing you can do if he doesn't come to his mom's house much. Maybe you can talk on the phone (if you have his number) or online (if you have his screen name/email address) and just keep in contact. ]
Wait for him to come. Do you have his #? If so call him up and tell him you just want to talk and you need some support. And hes the only one that can give it to you.
shay :-) ]
you should give him a call, tell him that you really like him and see how he feels. maybe he likes you alot but he is just too afraid to tell you because he might think it will ruin your friendship if one or the other of you turn the other one down! maybe after that he will go to his moms alot more! ]
Fix the relationship if you know what I mean. Call him talk with him more often so that you don't feel like your on the side burner you know what I mean. Gradually bring him back into your life and gradually pull him back into your life, with small conversation (making up for lost time)
Cspinoza1 ]
I think you should just tell him how you feel. You never know,he might feel the same about you.
Elle ]
Can you call him on the phone? Maybe he has other interests lately that are keeping him occupied. If you talk to him, and find out why he hasn't been around, you will probably feel better. But if you want to let him know that you are thinking of him as more than a friend, be prepared if he doesn't feel the same way. ]
Ring him up. If you don't know his number, try the phone book. Send him an email or snail mail him a letter. ]
Well you could start by asking if there's anything going on to keep him from visiting. He may just be busy, or maybe he is going through some hard times. If that's the case then maybe you can cheer him up. After all he did the same for you, right? Once you get to the root of this, you can find more ways to get together more often. Life has a way of working itself out sometimes. ]
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