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bestfriend


Question Posted Monday May 4 2009, 4:51 pm

ok so theres this one guy who goes to my school and hes my bestfriend. we have been hanging out alotttt like every weeked and sometimes during the week tooo.
hes alot shorter then me which suchs and another bad thing about his is he gets with everygirl. and i mean literally. he is a whore. so im suprised he hasnt gotten an std by now and i think its pretty discusting.
but we have gotten alot closer this school year and i like it. we text alot more and he told me he wanted to have sex with me and i told him we shouldd (which was stupid) and i went to his house a couple weeks ago and we were making out and he was trying so bad to get in my pants but i kept saying no and he was getting mad cause he is used to getting with any girl any time he wants.
and then we hung out this weekend and we were suppose to get drunk and i was gonna sleep there but plans didnt go through so we just hungout and we made out again and then we went out with our friends and he kept talking about girls and stufff and like hes like what happened to your gray phone and im like i never had a gray phone and hes like oh that must be some other girl. and he wanted to drink so he kept calling girls and stuff and we went with my friends girlfriend and her friends were there and he told one of them to come sit on his lap. im just like woww. dont do that in front of me.
and i when i dropped him off at home i was giving him attitude and i just like left and he knew i was mad at him. and he ditches me alot for his guy friends. but i guess im kind of asking for him to use me since im letting him. but i dont know what to do?
i started to fall for him and all those comments about girls made me mad but like were not going out and no one knows we hooked up.

my question is, should i keep hooking up with him or should i just remain friends with him before things get way to akward?


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krazy_lady33 answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 2:26 am:
This definitely sounds like a "want what you can't have" situation. If he's going to lead you on, and embarass you (by asking another girl to sit on his lap infront of you) then obviously forget about him. He's just playing with you, and by the way you decribed him-- if you ended up hooking up with him he'd probably just move on right after any way.

What i'm trying to say is, don't hook up with him again and try to let your feelings go. If that doesn't work maybe you should avoid him until you do because im sure no matter what happens your gonna get screwed in the end.

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arytha answered Monday May 4 2009, 7:22 pm:
Awww from reading what you have written about this guy doesn't sound good. I would say to just be friends..he sounds like he's going through a phase where he thinks it's cool to get with as many chicks as he can. I would advice that you just be friends with him and not hook up with him anymore espcially if he makes you feel like that and act like you don't having feelings of front of other girls.

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Trauma answered Monday May 4 2009, 6:56 pm:
I would just be friends with him, if anything. This guy doesn't sound good, especially since he got mad at you for not sleeping with him. Not to mention if you keep hooking up with him without dating him, you'll still probably get jealous when he's with other girls. It would probably be a lot less trouble if you didn't hook up with him.

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