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My friends boyfriend hates me
Well my best friends boyfriend and me used to like really close then recently me and him grew apart and he has been a complete ass to me. He asked my friend not to talk to me that much anymore and if she listens to him i dont know what im going to do. But she would never break up with him and if he said he was going to break up with her cuz of me i no she would never talk to me again cuz she really loves him. what do i do?
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I would talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel. If not her, then talk to her boyfriend. One of them has GOT to listen to you!
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I think you should talk directly to your best friend's boyfriend. Tell him that you used to be really close and that you don't know what you did to make him not want your best friend to talk to you. If you try to clear things up with him, he might be more apt to not try to break up you and your best friend's friendship.
Also, in all honesty, the woman below me is 100% correct. If your 'best friend' would stop talking to you because a guy told her to, she's not really such a good friend. If I were you I would talk to her about that.
Hope this helps.(:
Darby
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I know you won't like this, but I'm going to be straight up, here.
If she would never speak to you again because some jerk gave her an ultimatum of "her or me" then she's not a true friend to begin with.
Better to find that out now than when you really need her.
ygs-31/f
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let your friend and this guy have there space, if you hang around when they're together. you know? if you and this guy where once good friends the "love" is still there. all you have to do is build the friendship up a little more.
maybe he'll get over it.
also, talk to your friend about this. tell her you don't want to lose her friendship and tell her how you want it to be. maybe even ask her to stick up for you if he's talking bad about you.
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