Ive been in this relationship for over 1 year now, but we never have sex, we never kiss with ne tounge action we never cuddle or do nething like that we argue over stupid things and we now have a baby boy. i dont wanna have to stay with him bcuz of our son or bcuz i feel bad but im just not happy. Hes not abusive in ne way physically or mentally but something just isnt right i need help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? partygirl24 answered Thursday May 14 2009, 12:40 am: this is a hard one because theres a child involved. ive been in this same situation...and trust me when i say-do not stay in an unhappy relationship. 1. its not making you happy 2. its not healthy for the child....i know its hard to leave and start over but theres someone out there who will give you the feelings you want to have (the kisses, cuddling, etc) if you told this person how you feel and they still show you nothing...its time t move on to someone who will treat you the way you deserve and want to be treated. good luck:) [ partygirl24's advice column | Ask partygirl24 A Question ]
Darby answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 1:33 am: You and your bf/fiance should take a break. If things aren't working now, don't think they're going to work when you get married. You need to talk to your boyfriend about why you haven't been intimate and why you fight all the time. I'm sure you've already talked to him about it. But really sit down and talk to him about it. It does suck for your baby boy. But it's going to suck even more for him if he's living with his parents that constantly fight over stupid things.
Maybe some time spent away will remind you both why you started dating in the first place.
advice_girlx answered Monday May 4 2009, 6:45 pm: if your not happy then spend some time away.
go out with some friends you haven't seen in a while because of the relationship. don't cut it off just yet but try being more affectionate towards eachother. you make the first move, girl!
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