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Hello fellow advie givers, My name is Kinsey! And I'm 13 years of age. I love trying to help people out. I will try my best to help you the most I can with your question. Anyways, unlike most girls my age I love to read and write! I'm an aspiring author. I ask as many questions on here as I answer. So yeah, I hate these about me things, bye!
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Well my best friends boyfriend and me used to like really close then recently me and him grew apart and he has been a complete ass to me. He asked my friend not to talk to me that much anymore and if she listens to him i dont know what im going to do. But she would never break up with him and if he said he was going to break up with her cuz of me i no she would never talk to me again cuz she really loves him. what do i do? (link)
let your friend and this guy have there space, if you hang around when they're together. you know? if you and this guy where once good friends the "love" is still there. all you have to do is build the friendship up a little more.
maybe he'll get over it.

also, talk to your friend about this. tell her you don't want to lose her friendship and tell her how you want it to be. maybe even ask her to stick up for you if he's talking bad about you.


Ive been in this relationship for over 1 year now, but we never have sex, we never kiss with ne tounge action we never cuddle or do nething like that we argue over stupid things and we now have a baby boy. i dont wanna have to stay with him bcuz of our son or bcuz i feel bad but im just not happy. Hes not abusive in ne way physically or mentally but something just isnt right i need help? (link)
if your not happy then spend some time away.
go out with some friends you haven't seen in a while because of the relationship. don't cut it off just yet but try being more affectionate towards eachother. you make the first move, girl!

best of luck!(:


Here lately, when i pee theres this really odd smell. It doesnt hurt or anything, but what is the smell? could it be an std?[i have no other symptoms of having an std and i dont even know if that is a sign] please dont just tell me to go to the doctors tell me what could be the cause of this? (link)
could be a yeast infection.
take a test ,you can buy at a drug store.
or go see your doctor.


Okay so me and my ex were best friends before we started going out like couldn't get any closer. Then we decided to take it further and we started going out. We were together for just under a year and were in love with each other. We split up just because it felt like we were just friends like the romance was kind of gone we're 17 and decided that it would be best to see what else is out there. Problem is that as much as i try i can't stop thinking about him, when we're out tgether we act like what we used to before we were in a relationship with him, he txt me after a night out saying he found it hard to not kiss me and he still has feelings but we're trying to ignore our feelings and he's just turned 18 so he's out at weekends hooking up with these girls but i've not managed to get that far yet i'm totally in love with him and don't no what to do.

The reason i'm saying this is because its not the ususal in love bad break up don't nowhat to do. The problem is we still love each other its soo confusing =S we tried time apart but we reli struggled with that but its hard being together too sometimes, we don't want to be together i don't think its just because we were tgether a year and are in love still.

Any advice would be grateful lol

x (link)
i think you guys sound really good together.
give it another shot or tell him how you feel.

but, it sounds like if he's going to be out hooking up all the time hes not going to be that loyal. but i wouldn't know.

but i deffinatley think you should give it another go.


in the book, HOMICIDE: A YEAR ON THE KILLING STREETS by David Simon, there is a picture of a board with the detectives names and what cases they are working and if they are open or closed. the detectives refer to this board as the board. does any one know how to get a bigger or better picture of this? So all the words and color is visible. and please no one say goggle. (link)
i say google.com
bahaha, get it? you spelt it goggle

sorry, i had to do it.
but you can try like a magnifying glass
or visit the books/authors website.


16/f

Some guy clicked on me on the 'Are You Interested' app on FB and added me. nbd, its happened before. I'm not really into that type of stuff but I really didn't think much of it. But we started talking and we have a bunch of mutual friends (he lives a town or two over). We've only been talking for a few days but he keeps calling me "beautiful," saying "we're perfect for each other," etc etc. I think he wants to start a relationship & start seeing each other in 'real life' (for lack of a better term) but online dating just seems really weird to me. Like I never use that application and when guys talk to me, I reply but only as a friend, not really flirtatiously. idk I just really don't feel comfortable dating someone I met online, even if I do know that he's a normal kid and not some psychopath. Plus I barely know him - I take relationships really seriously and I'm not going to start dating someone I've had a few conversations with. i might be willing to date him if i got to know him more, but that would probably mean meeting in person, so i'm pretty much contradicting myself, haha.

Should I tell him im not interested in him in that way, or give it a chance?

thanks :) (link)
i think you should tell him that your not that into internet dating. and that you aren't interested.

i think he might be being so flirty with you to try and get "in your pants." because if he didn't know you well and you met online that might be what he's looking for.

think about it. and good luck!(:


this is weird.
but i like the smell of my morning breath haha.
is that weird? does anyone know why?
i also like the taste of it.
but not anyone else's. gross.
hah? (link)
wow, my brothers would be like your present then (they have bad breath). but no its normal different people take plessure in different things. its perfectly normal.


OMG!! those books are soo good!
So i know theirs like 6 in the series so far so does anyone know the complete order when they were all made? if so can u put it down? i read the first 3 but please put them all down (link)
The Last Apprentice: Attack of the Fiend

The Last Apprentice: Wrath of the Bloodeye

The Last Apprentice: Night of the Soul Stealer

The Last Apprentice: Revenge of the Witch

The Last Apprentice: Curse of the Bane

That's all I could find, unless its like a totally different book series. lol.


ok i fingered my girl friend..... problem is i might have had semon or pre cum on my fingers.... is there a chance she could be pregnant because she is a week and a half late starting her period. (link)
Unfortuantly, sperm still lives outside your uh, place. So there is a chance she may be pregnant.
But then again it could just be a late period.
Like the other girl said see a doctor if you want an accurate answer or take a pregnancy test.

hope I helped. :)


ok wellll for halloween i want to have a really slutty costume so i was wondering if any one had ideas? im going to a party with my bf and im gonna dress really slutty hehehe. thanks!! (link)
Look at costume stores they have a lot of "slutty" costumes

But maybe
-an animal[cliche]
-angel
-eve
-hooters girl

there are so many! be creative.


14/f
freshman


right now i am 5'3''
my mom is 5'8''
my dad is 5'10''
and my sister turned otu to be 5'8''

what would you guess that i will be?
and yes i have started my period.

but dont say that it stops, i know that that isnt true because i have grown 2 inches last year.

please help. (link)
My guess,
5'5"-5'8"
would seem right.
I'm guessing you'll be about...
5'6" though.
Hope I helped.
You never know that's just an estimation,
you could turn out to be 6'6" for all I know.

Hope I helped though!


Me and my family aren't close at all. I want to go to a performing arts school/bording school/high school in Michigan. How do I talk them into this? 14/f (link)
Well there are a few things to consider.
One, its boarding not bording.
Anyways, you just have to tell them that you would like to go to this school.
there is no way that i no of atleast to persuade them to letting you go.

you must remember that boarding schools cost some [alot] of money.

talk to your parents and tell them how you think this would improve yourself. and how it would help you later on if you persue a career.

tell them that it would be more eduacting and were you want to be.

this is kind of a tough one and you just need to talk to them and lay down the law.

best of luck! :)


So, about..6 or 5 months ago i got a perm to make my hair curly. I didn't expect it to be like, SUPER curly! I hated it. I still do. It's not as curly as before but it's still pretty big and puffy. I want to get rid of this thing!! Anyone know a quicker way?!

I read online cutting your hair helps? I had one of my layers cut so now i only have two, and my hairs kinda short. Like to my shoulder, when i straighten it that is. Straightening ALL of my hair is a pain..ugh. I just don't have the patience to do it in the mornings, it takes hours! >. (link)
Try straightning it get a hot iron straigtner.

Or, you can get a japeneas[sp?] perm. I know what your thinking ,"I'm trying to get rid of this perm" ,but really a japeneas[sp?] perm has the opposite effect it makes your hair superdy-duperdy straight.

So hope I helped!


okay so i have the sims deluxe edition and a bunch more of them. i had all of them downlaoded a long time ago but then one day my brother decided that he wanted to un-downlaod them so he got them all deleted from the computer, so now im trying to redownlaod them and the whole thing downlaods smoothly and stuff then right when it gets to 100% complete on the downloading it stops and a popup comes up saying that it cant downlaod it because its already in a folder or something...ive tried so many times an again and again the same thing happens.
i dont know how to fix this and i really want to so please help and use as much detail as possible if you can!!!!

thanks in advance :) (link)
Technically if you deleted it, he didn't undownload it so it should still be able to be found without you downloading it again. Because it is their so you don't need to download it again.

How to get to the game! :
1) First click "start"
2) click "all programs"
3) Look for "EA games" and put your mouse over that [dont click it]
4) It should have the names of the sims game you want there.
5) and just click one [make shure the CD game is in for the correct one]
6) Play!

In case it doesn't work:
1) click "start"
2) click "my documents"
3) There should be a folder titled "EA games", click that.
4) it should be under one of the 2 folders there are. [but in some cases it isn't]

Also, if it still doesn't work:
1) click "start"
2) click "search"
3) A box should pop up and in the lower-left-hand corner there should be choices of what to search click "all files and folders."
4) in the first box type sims
5) it will look through till it finds it. Once you see one of the sims things you want click it.

As you can see there are a few ways to do it. So hope I helped!


When you wax..down there..do you like wax the entire thing? Like i hear people do bikini waxes but aren't those like only the inner thighs right near your vagina and all that? Like can you wax the entire thing? (link)
Yes, you sure can wax the hole thing.
Just say to want "it" all gone. Or that
you want the hole thing waxed. And wha-la
problem solved. : )


Which is better?

http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-09.jpg

or

http://www.hairstylesplus.com/veryshorthairstyles/cute-pixie.htm

Ive got it down to these 2 and cant decide, can you guys help me out? (link)
I say number one. : )

But best of luck with your new hairstyle.


i feel like i've heard the song a day in the life by the beatles in a movie before, but i can't remember which one. i don't even know if i have, but i have a feeling haha. so does anyone recall hearing that in a movie, and which one? (link)
idk, but if it might have been across the universe it has most of the beatles songs in it so maybe that otherwise idk sorry. hope i helped


Well I am a female and i am 14. Almost a year ago i met a guy on this game i play online and i got feelings for him and i didn't think he had feelings back. We ended up dating and it was great but it was an online and phone thing. I know people say that doesn't work but for us it did for a while at least! We ended up falling in love with each other and please don't say u can't fall in love at my age cause u can and i did! I had one problem, at the time i lied about my age i know stupid! My mom ended up finding out all about him and that i lied to him and she said we had to break up and we didn't we just talked online! We slowly fell apart arguing and such and he broke up with me and now he hates me and won't talk to me but i sadly still love him! =/ and he doesn't love me and i cry all the time and i just can't move on and i don't know what to do! help? (link)
Ohkay, well first of all I think you should just really move on because it was just over a game and you never really knew who he was and he never really knew who you were. So online relationships and stuff never really work because the internet is full of liars and people who say they are people that they aren't. But anyways thats what I think you can do. It would help if you told me like what game or whatevs. But the second option is you can keep trying at it keep trying to contact him and eventually he will responded. Tell him you still do love him or whatever. But frankly you should just move on it was just a game.

But good luck and I hope I helped! :)


hi ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for a while and his birthday is comming up. he'll be 16 i've bought him a couple things already and i like all of the things ive chosen, but one is 2 pairs of cute boxers from american eagle.

i just wanna know if thats weird? ha
anyone answer please! esspecially guys though..
tell me if your girlfriend bought u boxers would you think thats weird?
help me ! thankss :) (link)
Well it would be weird if he wore wighty-tighties and you bought him boxers! Lol. But No I think that is like totally cool! And a good choice! : )


links to cute tops, shorts, or dresses for summer?!

im really sick of my summer clothes from last year so anything new and cute would be appreciated! (link)
Well, I'm not sure what stores you like and so here are many links to many cute clothes! =]


From Hollister:

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12607_-1_12552

Those are cute Tank tops. Anything from hollisterco.com is cute and you could were in the summer. So check that site out.

Abercrombie:

Abercrombie.com has cute shorts. Click women and twill shorts those are all cute.

PacSun:

http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&categoryId=30414&parentCategoryId=10002&sortBy=0&pageNumber=1

Those are cute dresses.

Go to kohls.com and check out what they have in the juniors department. The have cute shorts and outfits. Just press Junior Trends.

Hope I helped and I tried to give you stores you could find those cute stuff at. But if I didn't help Sorry. =]

Best of Luck! =]

And hope you find that "it" outfit!

xox,
Jenny












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