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A guy i fell in love with that loved me back and now hates m
Well I am a female and i am 14. Almost a year ago i met a guy on this game i play online and i got feelings for him and i didn't think he had feelings back. We ended up dating and it was great but it was an online and phone thing. I know people say that doesn't work but for us it did for a while at least! We ended up falling in love with each other and please don't say u can't fall in love at my age cause u can and i did! I had one problem, at the time i lied about my age i know stupid! My mom ended up finding out all about him and that i lied to him and she said we had to break up and we didn't we just talked online! We slowly fell apart arguing and such and he broke up with me and now he hates me and won't talk to me but i sadly still love him! =/ and he doesn't love me and i cry all the time and i just can't move on and i don't know what to do! help?
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im in a simular situation. im female and 14. i meet a guy in a chat room shortly after my mum had died. he was awsume, we became close and he could always made me smile. we grew closer and closer, we would even stay up all night on cam together. we did silly things. when he told me he loved me i was so shocked, so happy but so upset at the same time. we were in love. i had lied about my age tho, and he found out, he is in his early twenties, he was real shocked. i still talk to him now, but we are growing apart. i cry a lot over him. he is always on my mind. its annoying. i need him. but i think he is falling for some1 else. it feels awful! id dont know wot to do :|
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Well...
They say if it's meant to be it will happen. You are still young, I'm not saying you can't fall in love but I am saying.. that there are a lot of guys out there for you. Ones that you can actually have a relationship rather than just typing and talking on the phone with. You never know who you are talking to on the internet these days. I would try your best to move on.
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I agree, the best thing you can do is just move on. I mean think about how many people are still out there for you, who you can actually hug, and hold, and kiss.
I mean eventually the relationship you had with this guy would fall apart anyways... I'm not saying what you felt wasn't real, it's just it's hard to keep a relationship like that going.
He was probably upset you lied to him... although the thing is I can guarantee he's said some lies to you. That's how people over the internet are. He could have lied about his age, the way he looked... I mean for all you know he could have been a psycho ya know? Even if you think he was a sweet guy, you never know..
And I know from second-hand experience... because my friend "dated" this guy online... ended up meeting him in person... and he turned out to be a COMPLETE scum-bag. Even though he seemed nice and caring (even to me, because I talked to him online too in order to make my friend happy)... he ended up being a complete bastard -- to put it simply.
So this is for the best, whether you think so or not. The truth is, he's probably move don already. I mean it sounds harsh but he's a 14 year old guy, right? Guys like that do that even IF you meet them in person. That's just how they are... Most of them are not mature enough at that age to understand relationships.
Good luck.
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Ohkay, well first of all I think you should just really move on because it was just over a game and you never really knew who he was and he never really knew who you were. So online relationships and stuff never really work because the internet is full of liars and people who say they are people that they aren't. But anyways thats what I think you can do. It would help if you told me like what game or whatevs. But the second option is you can keep trying at it keep trying to contact him and eventually he will responded. Tell him you still do love him or whatever. But frankly you should just move on it was just a game.
But good luck and I hope I helped! :)
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