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15/f
My boyfriend and I are going to have sex and when I told him I had just gotten on the pill, the first thing he says is how excited he is because he won't have to use a condom. When he said this, I had no idea how to respond because I've always been under the impression that with sex, a condom is ALWAYS a must for protection. My first time was last winter break when I was rapped. Since then, I've been tested (clean) and only had safe-sex once with my current boyfriend. I know the fact that I'm having sex with my boyfriend at such a young age may seem "slutty" after such a short period of time but being raped, I never thought I'd have any desire to have sex again. Plus, now that I've done it, I'm much more open to it. But, I'm not sure how open I am to sex without a condom. He's 18 and I'm his first and we're currently not seeing anyone else....I just don't know what to think about sex without a condom. I want this to be special but I'm just not sure. Because I'm his first and we're both clean, sex without a condom shouldnt have any risk.....right? (link)
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17, female.I wasnt sure what to put this under but I get these sharp pains that radiate from my ovaries all the way down to my vaginal area. It feels as if a razor blade is scraping me and i have to stop whatever i'm doing and curl up and wait for it to pass. It doesnt happend often but ive noticed that its more frequent. What could this be? (link)
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I used to experience similar pains and found out I had an ovarian cyst. Ovarian cysts can be excruciatingly painful in that general area. When I had it, the pains would come at random times and hurt so badly I could barely walk and also need to curl up in a ball. You should probably consult your doctor about this, especially if it's starting to reoccur more frequently. I hope you feel start feeling better soon girly.
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Ok so Im around 208lbs
& Im 14
Freshman
I wanna lose weight
How can I do this WITHOUT exercise?
I walk alot during school
& I walk alot when I go out with friends sometimes
I just recentaly started walking down a road before my parents get home from work
Its pretty long & I walk about 10min each day on it
What kind of diets could I use without too much extra cooking, ect ect
& no weight loss programs
& again, NO EXERCISE besides what I mentioned above
Thanks in advance [= (link)
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I am also 14 and also have weight problems. I also searched for diets which would require no exercise but the fact of the matter is that you can't lose weight without exercising. By weight, i do not mean water weight(you can lose 7lb of water weight without actually losing weight). If you starve yourself it's much more difficult to lose weight. The easiest way is to simply eat healthy foods and exercise as much as possible. Stay away from empty calories (sodas,shakes, juices, ect.) Water and milk are best. Controlling your wieght is (overall) intake-outtake. For a month i eight glasses of water a day, ate healthy square meals, and ran at least 45 minutes a day. I lost fifteen pounds. I know you asked for a diet without exercise but it honestly does not work. Even if you do lose weight that way, there is a high chance that you'll gain it back, trust me. Exercise more (like 30 minutes more a day)and eat healthy. That's about all you need to do. Just remeber that it's all about intake/outtake and that it takes time, effort, and a huge change in attitude. Well, that's my advise and i hope i helpped at least a little. Just remember, we're all different and won't look like the supermodels on the covers of magazine.
Best of luck to ya!
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OKAY.
Well my friend likes this guy who is sort of playing around with her. Somedays he'll flirt with her, somedays he'll be normal, somedays he'll ignore her. He hasn't really shown any interest in her, he does flirt but I think it's just a casual thing.
Anyway, we (We being all her friends) think what he's doing is wrong, no matter how he feels about her.
One day, one of our friends was like "oh my god, you can do so much better. seriously, you're so much better than him. what he's doing isn't right"
Then my friend who I'm asking about/likes the boy spent the whole weekend bitching about my friend, saying it was her descision to like him or not and my other friend doesn't get a say in it. I didn't say anything, but I spent the whole time thinking 'it's not like she was forcing you to not like him...besides, it was a COMPLIMENT'
And now I'm starting to get sick of it all. She acts as if this is a long time boyfriend and takes everything too seriously. She'll spend weeks moping about something really small, spends her time bitching about it, and oh, did I mention it's a guy over the internet she's never met before?
Because I'm a good friend I never said anything. And I never will. However just then...
We were having a 3 way convo on MSN. Me, my friend in question and another friend. She sent him an email and he hasn't replied yet. Me and friend in question are paying out the guy to her to make her feel better. So I said something, and she suddenly quits the convo and is now refusing to talk to me.
WTF?! I honestly didn't question her feelings for him, or even tell her what to do. All I said was this boy needs a slapping (because he DOES if he feels like he needs to play around with girls on the internet :S go get some real piece of ass) and she's suddenly pissed at me, like the other friend who said she can do so much better.
What do I do from here, I want her friendship, but honestly if she's going to be like this... (link)
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13/f
Hmmm. Well it's obvious that she has feelings for him but people fool around on the internet all the time. Even though he's flirting he's probably not serious and is just having fun in a pleasant conversation. Hopfully your friend's aware of this and won't get to serious over this guy, though it seems she already has. I think it'd be nice of you to stay friends with her. She's probably one of those people who don't keep things to themselves, which I'm not saying is a bad thing but she'll probably continue to bitch. I'd apologise, even if you didn't really do anything wrong, because you said a semi-insulting comment about the one she has feelings for. My advice is that you stay friends with her, apologise, and if you can't haddle the bitching, ask her to stop. Simply explain that, if she continues to speak with you about him, you'll continue to make comments and if she doesn't want to hear them, to simply shut up. (though not so harsh)Well, hope I helpped a little. Good Luck.
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Do you know a website where you can watch full anime episodes without downloading. I don't need it subbed but rather would prefer the original with the english writing at the bottom of the screen. Please don't suggest youtube (they are not allowing it anymore), live video, or veoh unless you have links for it. The anime I need it for are Ouran High Host Club, Fruits Basket, and Cardcaptor Sakura. If you can find links that would be awesome!
16/f (link)
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The website animecrunch.com should have Ouran and Fruit Basket. Cardcaptor Sakura? I'm not sure. You might want to check out crunchyroll.com. Everything's licenced now and are being taken off the web so you might not find them. Sorry if they're not there. hope I helpped.
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