Okay so me and my ex were best friends before we started going out like couldn't get any closer. Then we decided to take it further and we started going out. We were together for just under a year and were in love with each other. We split up just because it felt like we were just friends like the romance was kind of gone we're 17 and decided that it would be best to see what else is out there. Problem is that as much as i try i can't stop thinking about him, when we're out tgether we act like what we used to before we were in a relationship with him, he txt me after a night out saying he found it hard to not kiss me and he still has feelings but we're trying to ignore our feelings and he's just turned 18 so he's out at weekends hooking up with these girls but i've not managed to get that far yet i'm totally in love with him and don't no what to do.
The reason i'm saying this is because its not the ususal in love bad break up don't nowhat to do. The problem is we still love each other its soo confusing =S we tried time apart but we reli struggled with that but its hard being together too sometimes, we don't want to be together i don't think its just because we were tgether a year and are in love still.
Any advice would be grateful lol
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Darby answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 2:07 am: It sounds like you guys have a great relationship. Be it friendship or something more. What's confusing about this is that he's telling you he still has all these feelings for you, but he's out on weekends hooking up with girls? Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you'd like to give it another chance and that you can't stop thinking about him. If he decides to give it another shot, make sure he stops hooking up with the weekend girls (obviously). If he says that he wants to stay separated, it is time for you to move on. Unfortunately, he's already moved on as far as the sexual side of things go. If he doesn't want to pursue something again, keep your mind open to new relationships. Even if it's just becoming friends with new guys, it'll give you other options and keep him from your mind more often.
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