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Age: 26
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so a guy I was talking to he was very flirty i spent the night with him a few times slept in the same bed cuddled, told me hed be so lucky to be with me told me im part of his life, saying hes happy as long as hes talkin to me, told me i was gonna move in with him, said theres always been something about me, said wed make pretty babies (i kno stupid), but anyways he up and got back with his ex fiance sayin im his best friend and that he likes me but doesnt want to date me right now. what the hell??? what does he mean? (link)
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He said he doesn't want to date you right now?? hmmm sounds to me like he's got game (player) he wants to have let you go but keep you on a leash at the same time. He's leading you on but at the same time your not getting anywhere with him, well not until he's ready for you and then who knows he'll probably go back to his fiance, which im sure will hurt your feelings. My advice is to steer clear of him, if you want you can stay friends but anything more is maybe not such a good idea, i know it might sound harsh but he's really not considering your feelings and that makes his a jerk =)
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So I'm 15, and pregnant. My mom says I can't keep the baby. She wants me to get an abortion, and at the most an adoption. But I couldn't bring myself to do either. She doesn't want me to keep it! What can I do?
I know it will be hard, and I don't have a job, but before it is born I will be old enough to get a job, and so will my very supporting boyfriend. It's tough, but I have supporting friends, a supporting family, and a supporting boyfriend. But she doesn't want me to have it :( what can I do? What can I tell her? (link)
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Im sorry to hear that your mother does not support your decision to keep your baby. yeah YOUR BABY which means no matter what anybody says the last word and the final decision is yours. If you don't wanna have an abortion and don't wanna adopt out your baby then you don't have to, if you say your boyfriend is supportive and also your family and friends then you will be fine. You need to do whats right for you because your mother is not the one living your life and you don't wanna do something that you will end up regretting for the rest of your life and hating yourself for and that is something that your mother has to understand. And most mothers when their daughters give birth and actually sees their grandchild they will be happy and usually supportive straight away..so maybe your mother just needs time to get her head around the idea that you're having a baby and that you want to keep him/her.. =)
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Hey, I had my first sexual encounter last week. And some weird things have been happening, and I'm a little afraid. We had protected sex, but I haven't been feeling well for the past couple of days. I think it might be the flu, but I'm not positive that it is.. What are early signs of pregnancy, just in case? I don't really know what they are, but I would like to be on the lookout for symptoms. (link)
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This are the symptoms of pregnancy....
missed menstrual period
nausea
extreme fatigue
frequent urination
tender breasts
headache
heartburn
constipation
spotting
feeling faint
Hope that helped =)
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ok. when my girlfriend and i are making out in bed and things she sometimes puts her leg in between my legs so that her upper leg is pressed against my crotch. i was just wondering what thats about or what it means or anything? (link)
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Yeap! i do that to my man when we makeout too..usually because i wanna fell how big he is and it turns me on knowing that he's already hard ready to get pumping hehe, just maybe next time she does that while your making out with her just wisper to her ear and ask "how does that feel" if she moves her leg away then thats a no-go sign but if she respond by moving it closer then your on to something there.. hope that helped =)
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Im an 19 YO girl & im having problems with my best friend (a 19 YO guy). He just recently started dating this new, younger guy & ever since thay started dating we haven't really talked or hung out or anything like we used to. Me & my best friend live together, work together, etc. So im used to him aleays being there when I need him. However, we have been fighting more & talking less. Just recently we went to thw drive-ins & the entire time he was texting his boyfriend or sleeping in the car. When I tried talking to him about, he really didn't have anything to say. What should I do to fix our friendship & to get my best friend back???? (link)
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From reading what you wrote sounds to me that maybe your best friend has all his attention on this new boyfriend of his and that usually happens when someone just first get into a new relationship, they spend all their spare time thinking about that new person and getting to know them and forgetting the friends they have already. Maybe just give him some time and he'll come around. He's probably just going through that phase of being with someone new and directing all his attention to him. If yous don't have anything wrong with your friendship then you have nothing to worry about =)
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what are the implications of a 26 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? i know its not illegal but is it okay, acceptable, could it ever work out? what if love was involved? (link)
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Aww as the first 2 people below have said, it's not a problem to have a relationship with that big a gap of age difference, i know of alot of people of the same situation and they work out fine. And if love is involved then you have nothing to worry about all should work out for you.. good luck xo
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my boyfriend is 21 years old .. and we never had sex .. but i always blow job him and when i do it , it takes him like 2-3 minutes and then he comes ... so is it normal to come that fast ??? and is there a chance that it'll effect our sex in the future ???
18/f (link)
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From my experience guys come early because they want to or because they can't control the urgea and because they enjoy it so much they can't hold back cumming once their climaxing and if you haven't had sex with him before then maybe the first couple times he might til he gets the hang of it..but it won't effect your sexlife in the future..hope that helps xo
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Hello,
im getting the depro vera shot tomorrow and i was just wondering the side effects, also if anyone has expirenced weight gain or having their boobs grow while taking it? (link)
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Hi i haven't taken the depro vera shot but i have a close relative who took it, and she has since have regretted it. She gained a MASIVE amount of weight and not to mention mood swings and also now she was told by the doctor that she has cysts in her stomach. And since she has gained alot of from the injection she has a 10% of ever having a baby in the future. If i were you i would really think twice about getting the injection done and making sure you get alot of informations and advice before you go through with it..hope that helped and goodluck.
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ok so theres this one guy who goes to my school and hes my bestfriend. we have been hanging out alotttt like every weeked and sometimes during the week tooo.
hes alot shorter then me which suchs and another bad thing about his is he gets with everygirl. and i mean literally. he is a whore. so im suprised he hasnt gotten an std by now and i think its pretty discusting.
but we have gotten alot closer this school year and i like it. we text alot more and he told me he wanted to have sex with me and i told him we shouldd (which was stupid) and i went to his house a couple weeks ago and we were making out and he was trying so bad to get in my pants but i kept saying no and he was getting mad cause he is used to getting with any girl any time he wants.
and then we hung out this weekend and we were suppose to get drunk and i was gonna sleep there but plans didnt go through so we just hungout and we made out again and then we went out with our friends and he kept talking about girls and stufff and like hes like what happened to your gray phone and im like i never had a gray phone and hes like oh that must be some other girl. and he wanted to drink so he kept calling girls and stuff and we went with my friends girlfriend and her friends were there and he told one of them to come sit on his lap. im just like woww. dont do that in front of me.
and i when i dropped him off at home i was giving him attitude and i just like left and he knew i was mad at him. and he ditches me alot for his guy friends. but i guess im kind of asking for him to use me since im letting him. but i dont know what to do?
i started to fall for him and all those comments about girls made me mad but like were not going out and no one knows we hooked up.
my question is, should i keep hooking up with him or should i just remain friends with him before things get way to akward? (link)
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Awww from reading what you have written about this guy doesn't sound good. I would say to just be friends..he sounds like he's going through a phase where he thinks it's cool to get with as many chicks as he can. I would advice that you just be friends with him and not hook up with him anymore espcially if he makes you feel like that and act like you don't having feelings of front of other girls.
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okay im back i mean we are so in love ( i think) but things are kinda changing i mean dont get me wrong im so in love with this guy and he loves me to i knw he does but the thing is im so feed up with him telln me to make promises tht i wont start seeing anybody else and that im not havng intercourse with anybody else but its like he is breking a promise he made to me by talkn to other gurls but his is what he always say to me " baby dont get mad if u see me talkn to another girl cause you my baby and you my #1 gurl" at the time it be sweet but when i really think about it i be on some moe type stuff but i love him and im kinda feed up so what should i do please tell me (link)
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AWw sounds like what i went through..i know your inlove with him and think he's in love with you. guys are different from us like that. Some guys say one thing and do another. If he's making you keep all your promises and not his then you have a big problem. You should ask him straight out next time he talks to another girl, how would he feel if you went and had intercourse with another guy? and of course he's gonna say that talking and having intercourse are not the same thing and that's when you remind him "PROMISE IS A PROMISE" if he really cared and love you like he says he does then he would have respected you and your feelings. If he doesn't then you should break it off and if he really does love you then you will see him begging for you to get back together and he will learn that you are serious when it comes to your promises..hope you find that helpful..let me know how it goes with you two. xo
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ok! i like two guys but of them dont really show much of attention i need from them and it kind of hurt sometimes cuz im a person who love attention from people. one of the guy have claimed me or whatever is not but just happen to tell me he need space ... complicated but the other guy who say he dont want a relationship right now but i jus found out he has a gurl but at the same time he styll wants me to be all smooch up on him he had once mention he liked me but im not pretty convince .. long story short i want to get away from this guy but it seems like he jus sticking there and getting closer and more closer he gets the more i seem to get hurt ... WAT DO I DO? (link)
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AWw girl i know what you mean. Guys can be really good at getting a girl hooked even the one's already in a realtionships. But to be frank, i think you should keep away from him not only becuase he's already in with another girl but also because it sounds like he only wants you around as a sideliner, somebody on standby incase he's had enough from his girlfriend and your there to be his SECOND choice..and you being giving him the attention is only bosting his ego. and another thing..ask yourself, how would you feel if you were in his girlfriend's shows and you had no idea he was playing you behind your back with another chick? well gurl i hope i gave you enough advice to help you and hope you work it out. mwah
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alright, well me and my boyfriend brokre up because of alot of random things. But he says that i am his bestfriend still? Yet the inly time he talks to me is when he either is bored orr needsd somethiing. its never "hey ____, how're you". ughh i dont know anymore (link)
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Seems like he's keeping you around as somebody to unload on and nothing more..Friends and bestfriends communicate both ways and has the same concern for the friends and they do for themselves. If he never asks how you're doing or seeing if your okay then, maybe you shouldn't ask him how he is. You can treat him the same way he treats you.
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which behavior is more likely to get a guy to get back together with you:
A. telling him you still love him and being clingy
or
B. pretending to have fun without him
i'm going to prom (with my ex)and i would do anything to get him back..any advice pleasee (link)
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Well it really depends on how well you know him and and long you were in the relationship with him and the reason why you broke up in the first place..If you haven't been with him for very long before you broke up then saying i love you to him may not be such a good idea.. pretending is never a good idea. maybe you can try having a serious talk with him alone and asking him what he likes in a girl and try asking him what you can do to make it work with him again. ask him lil questions about him questions that you know will give you the answer on how you can get him back. Most guys don't mind when girls ask simple questions about them and family sometimes that gets them to feel close to you. Hope that will help. and GOOD LUCK!
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